The man I am with has captivated me, mind body and soul. The time we have spent together is amazing, and I treasure every second I get to spend with him, even if it is just sitting around talking or watching a movie, or anything. As long as I am with him, I am in complete bliss.
I haven't been in love with anyone else before him, and I think it's so hard. Not loving him, but the fact that I can't bare to apart from him, it's like he has the other half of my heart when he's not around me. The touch of his hand gives me a sense of calmness and serenity, and hearing his voice soothes all of my fears.
I'm afraid to tell him I love him. It's on the tip of my tounge everytime I hear his voice or see him. What is something I can do, an action, that would show him - I love him - and him alone??
I know actions speak louder than words.
2006-11-01 12:13:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH hun, falling in love with someone is suposed to be easy,,,letting that someone know,,,well is not so easy sometimes.
But if you are worried that telling him you love him may change things between the two of you,,,then just let your love shine from within,,,and eventrally your heart will let you know when is the right time to tell him how you feel.More then likely if he feels the same way for you,,he will see the love in your eyes,,and feel it without you saying a word.
Good luck my dear
2006-11-01 12:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by ladydi_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here"s a little secret, always let the man tell you he loves you first! Men are supposed to be the pursuers. It works better that way. You hit the nail on the head when you said. "Actions speak louder than words." You show him by being nice, kind considerate, thoughtful,etc. Save yourself for marriage!
2006-11-01 20:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm how old are you? You seem older (maybe just the way u worded stuff) well if u love him let him know and tell him but dont be all clingy cuz thats just a turn-off (lol i had a clingy bf)
You seem like a cheesy person (SORRY!) so dont be too cheesy and dont be cligny and dont be saying i love u all the time.. maybe just wisper it into his years when ur giving him a hug? that sounds cute.
2006-11-01 20:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're setting yourself up, honey. Some day he'll do something you don't like or dont understand, and you'll be despondent over his "shortcomings". Give both of you a break and stop idolizing him.
Geez. No wonder the divorce rate is so high in this country.
2006-11-01 20:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by lucyanddesi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy it while it last,if you were truly in love with him you'd be able to tell him so.So what you are is,your just in love with the moment,what he does to you and for you,but not completely.Now that's not a bad thing but wait until your sure in your own mind before you start saying it.And when you do,mean it.Good luck.
2006-11-01 20:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell him....you have to take a risk sometimes that you'll fall flat on your face, but it's better than regretting not doing anything.
2006-11-01 20:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by Js_5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take the risk and tell him straight you love him
2006-11-01 20:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself!
2006-11-01 20:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by sassy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋