ok so theres this guy and we dated for alittle over a month countinously and off and on before that for awhile ...well we met through his friend (and my ex boyfriend) his name is chris but chris is like 6 years older then me so it was kinda scary for us to date but anyways so i didnt want to date him anymore so i told him "look i really do like you alot but i think i should find someone alittle younger for me sorry" he said he was ok and everything but then his friend Dave (the guy i love alot with everything i am) started to like me and chris told him look dude shes not for you and shes going to push you away so stay away well he didnt listen and we dated and i fell completely and totaly in love with himand i know im only 14 and not old enough to love some one this much but i really feel i do love him. and so we dated and then after about a month he said we couldn't see each other anymore because of collage and everything he was going to there would be no time for me.
2006-11-01 12:06:54 · 20 answers · asked by Emily Rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i told him i didnt care i loved him and wanted to be with him forever and he said that we couldn't because of eveything going on and so we split ........we're still friends but i tryed to tell him how i felt but he said look if you cant be just my friend then im done so we stayed friends and i really want to tell him how i feel but im scared if i do then he'll leave me forever and for good no more friends or anything what should i do?
2006-11-01 12:09:14 · update #1
thank you guys so much for all your "answers"
2006-11-01 12:16:50 · update #2
All you really can do is pick up the pieces and move on no matter how much it hurts and you are 14 but I think anyone can fall in love at any age..Love is a feeling it doesn't care how old you are...or what you look like or really who you are at all really...But about the boy just try your best to move on thats really all you can do it'll take some time so be patient and understand when one door closes another opens..."Don't dwell on the closed door so much that you don't see the one wide open for you"...thats about it but Good Luck...
2006-11-01 12:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Alyse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that seeing your 14 you should just stick to being friends if you really care about him. All though you love him and all he's in college. He might do stuff with other girls because he thinks your not gonna find out. Being friends is probably best. Find someone you could kick it with now. I know it sounds awful to do that, but it may be for the best. What do you rather?
Somone who loves you and is around most of the time or someone who's looking for friendship seeing he's in collage and might find other opportunities. don't worry
2006-11-01 12:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 04:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so let me get this straight. You are 14 and he's 20??? What the hell is wrong with him? What do your parents say. You have no business being with someone that much older when you are 14.
2006-11-01 12:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by jblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your way to young,not to be in love BUT to be with someone in collage, try guys around your own age,better yet don't even bother with guys worry about school. Your a baby you got allot of life and love ahead of you.
2006-11-01 12:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought you said you wanted to date someone your own age,don't you think you need to stick to that?Your going to get yourself(and these older guys) in lots of trouble.If they try to sleep with you that's called rape,even if you wanted to or not because your under aged and they are adults.Stop being in so much of a rush to be grown up,once you are you can't go back so enjoy it while you can,and find someone your own age to be with.
2006-11-01 12:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My favorite part was when you told us your friend said "dude" lol...are you on like your 5th Mt. Dew of the day or something?
PS- This might seem insensitive, but what on EARTH are you asking for here?
2006-11-01 12:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by Js_5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the question? If you aren't going to marry him, why bother getting all stupid over a boy when you're only 14?
2006-11-01 12:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you need to stick with guys your own age for now. Those guys shouldn't even be messin with you. Your time will come, just enjoy being 14, don't worry about love so much.....:)
2006-11-01 12:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating and older man should not be a problem, unless you are underage, and you are, so at least for 4 more years you should stick with underage guys only
2006-11-01 12:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋