This kid that i kinda know asked me out the other day and i said maybe and that i would answer him after we hung out once and so he asked me to go on a date with him on friday and today i find out he asked out another girl and she said yes so theyre going out and he toldme he still likes me and asked me out again while hes going out with this other girl and he said he doesnt even like her and will break up with her if i say yes after our date on friday but idk if i should say yes because he seems like a MAJOR player...what should i do?
2006-11-01 11:58:09 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl no man is worth that. Trust, if he wants you he would not even think about messing up his chances by asking another girl. Think about it, if he didnt like this girl, why would he ask her out. Is this guy in a habit of just picking up girls and dropping them. Do you really want that kind of guy? You're worth more girl! Get the guy that is for YOU and not games.
2006-11-01 12:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by Love song!! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well of course maybe this kid liked you. You asnwered "Maybe" and maybe when he grew up maybe was a positive no to him, or the way you said it was a "no to him". I think you should be his friend, but only friend and not anything more. You do deserve better and should find a guy that will wait for you and not go around replacing you. Being replaced can hurt, even if you maybe didn't like this guy and I'm sure when you heard you were replaced you felt misraeable. Now don't slap him or anything just sit down and tell him "Hi. I heardyou asked so and so out. I was thinking we can just be friends or something like that. But I don't want to be replaced and I do want better" Hope this helps! Good Luck!
2006-11-01 12:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with casually dating more than one person at once and getting to know multiple people at once, but if he is just a player then move on and wait for an upstanding man.
2006-11-01 12:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're right. He's a MAJOR player. Have a date with him on friday for the fun of it and see if he'll break up with her. Bet he wont!
2006-11-01 12:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by model-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you mean "Date", do you mean casual dating? because you dont even address him as boyfriend. it is not even official yet that you two are an item. i do not see a problem with him dating another girl- he has the right to explore his options. he may not be the sort of guy who chooses one girl and goes only after that one girl.
give him the space and give yourself space. but if you however find all of this discomforting, why dont you just leave the situation?
2006-11-01 12:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anna D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
RUN do not WALK away from this fool!He will hurt you over and over.In life you can be the rug and get walked on,the walls and hold it all together,or be the roof and rise above guys that are players
2006-11-01 12:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by Maw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with him. He's a major player for sure.
2006-11-01 12:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a pig to me.
Reminds me of this guy who liked me but I found him making out with this other girl.
But it was funny to later on see him ignore her and talk to ME instead... she got pissed at him and asked "Is it HER or ME?!" He pretty much just giggled.
But yeah...... that guy just sounds like a player to me.
I suggest not even bother dealing with that kinda guy.
2006-11-01 12:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hes an idiot and just wants a girl to show off
find a guy that will rele care only for u
2006-11-01 12:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by neverland22 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DUMP HIM SOON! He is sutch a lier! He is playing you!! You should totally dump him or he will go out with tunes of other girls. I know you are better than that! Us girls got to stick to gather!
2006-11-01 12:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋