should i call him?

Question

i called my boyfriend around 11:00 and he hasn't returned my call...should i call him and confront him, or wait till he calls me?

Answer 1

talk to him in a day- if he hasn't alled bak by then feel free to chew him out. he may just b busy and wants to talk to u when he has time to rele talk to u- not just a qiuck meaningless conver

Answer 2

Never let him see you sweat! He knows that you called him and there's no need for you to call him again. In fact, I would turn the ringers off on all my phones or just ignore his calls for the next few days. Let him wonder where you are, what you're doing or who you're with if you know what I mean. Don't lose your cool points and for God's sake do not sit by the phone and keep picking up the receiver to see if the phone is working (smile). Call a friend, a long lost relative, or read a magazine. Whatever you do don't call him. Remember you are the queen and he should be running you down not the other way around. And when he finally does call do not, I repeat do not ask him why he didn't call act as is you're as happy and busy as can be. And if he trys to explain stop him in a nice way and simply say "Oh, you don't have to explain but I am kind of busy let me call you back. He will wonder what in the hell is going on and that's how you want to keep him at all times. Guys can sense desparate women and you lose control of the relationship when you appear this way. Trust me I wrote the rules on this. After many years of heartbreak I know what works.

Answer 3

Thanks for the advice. And I really think that you should call him if he hasn’t already called you. I wouldn’t call him and confront him I would just wait and call and ask him what’s up in a loving caring kinda way. But if he doesn’t call back keep calling and when he finally pix the phone up be like “hey why haven’t you call me back I was worried about you. I’ve been trying o call you I miss talking to you a” and just simple stuff like that just stuff that shows you care and ask why he didn’t return your calls. And when he doesn’t have a good enough reason then confront him and ask and he’s cheating and stuff like that.

Answer 4

Coming from a guy I think that you should just wait until he calls you because you dont want to seem that you are smothering him or that you dont trust him. When I use to date, I would call my girlfriend once and wait for her to return my calls. Then I would confront her on what took so long. Be careful because you dont want to show "insecurity". But if you are indeed "insecure" then you may want to re-evaluate your relationship because you shouldnt feel that way.

Answer 5

You called at 11:00 AM? I would call again to say you're checking in and you're worried that you havent heard from him and see what happens

Answer 6

YES, call him again. But do not confront him even when he call you back.
Just take it easy, let him tell you why before you jump into any conclusion.
Sometime, he maybe left cell phone at home or it is out of battery.

Answer 7

DON'T CALL!
If you call you are going to be all confrontational and upset and that's just chases guys away.

Wait for him to call. Id even say don't answer when he calls and turn the tables...but that would be playing games ;)

Answer 8

Did you leave a message on his answering machine? If you didn't, then call him back and leave a message, but if you did leave a message, you might want to wait and see if he calls you in the next hour or so before you call him again...

Answer 9

Depends on how long it has been. I'd wait for a while yet before I called him,,I wouldn't bug him too much

Answer 10

Girl u need to call him and say what ya feel its always worked with me