2006-11-01 11:55:15 · 22 answers · asked by Stardust 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I my self have no idea whether its love or not, but I have been feeling the same way towards him for almost 2 years and we have never met. I find it peculiar though because I have quite a handful of admirers and yet I have never felt towards them what I feel for him, could it be Im just in love with my dream guy...but in reality, a dream is just a dream..hmm..
2006-11-01 12:07:00 · update #1
Ok, so I was interviewing a war veteran about his experiences in Vietnam and he told me how he met his wife.
His friend who was in Vietnam with him mentioned that he had a younger sister about his age. So he started writing to her. They wrote each other back and forth for months and eventually met when she was picking up her brother while he was on leave. They instantly hit it off and were married a year later and have been together now for over 30 years.
I thought it was a really cute story. But yes. I think its possible. If you have a deep connection without even ever having met, then I think that it is definitely possible to have a connection when you eventually meet in person.
2006-11-01 13:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Allie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely it is possible. My Gf and I met online, we talked online and also on the phone. For quite a few weeks we had not ever even met in person. But now we live together and are planning a life and future together and Love each other VERY much. Yes it IS possible. Love has absolutely NO boundaries and can come in more ways and forms than our small little minds will ever have the power too even comprehend. Good Luck !!!
2006-11-01 20:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by The Red Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! My boyfriend and I started out being phone friends. I saw pictures of him, and he saw pictures of me. We were able to leave all the sexual tension alone and work on an amazing friendship. We talked from April until the middle of September every night for atleast 2 hours a night. Then in September I went to visit him and things were just as amazing in person as they were on the phone. We started dating instantly, and he's now moving down here to be with me. Although my situation may be different, because he was friends with my best friend before he moved away, so I was able to trust him, since my best friend had a close friendship with him and told me that was a good honest guy.
2006-11-01 20:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Vicey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are in love with the idea of the person. But life and the internet are rarely ever the same. Just make sure to understand the difference so if you do ever meet you don't set yourself up for failure. High expectations always ruin it.
2006-11-01 19:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by Joella D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sort of depends, I had a "relationship" like that and when I said I loved her she pretty much thought I was insane. You never know what can work out, be careful though, when you meet in person really get to know him before you do anything drastic.
2006-11-01 19:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not , im 43 , when i was 13 to 20 i " fell in love ! " about 100 times, if i kissed a girl i was in love , but believe me its not the real thing, when it is the real thing you will know , and you wont have to ask a web site , good luck !
2006-11-01 20:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by cliff4sally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm sure, but take this from someone who's been in your shoes...you can make yourself out to be anyone online. It's shady. Chances are he's not as perfect as you think and vice versa.
And if you do meet him, talk to him on the phone ALOT before you do so, maybe even ask for numerous pictures.
2006-11-01 19:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Js_5 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love with my husband only from getting letters from him. He wrote me poetry and sent me so many sweet little things. I never saw a picture of him or heard his voice. When we finally met it was like we knew each other completely. We were married for 16 years when he died of a heart attack. He was the love of my life.
2006-11-01 19:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes...in fact that may be the truest love because it cannot possibly be based on physical attraction. If you are in love with this person whom you've only spoken to you must be in love with their personality and ideas.
2006-11-01 19:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by roshambo76 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is actually more than possible. when i first met my boyfriend that is how we were, we saw each other's pictures and talked everyday on the phone and i fell hard for him. then the day came when we met in person and we are still in love n still together.
2006-11-01 20:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋