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well..
I'm a asian guy
and i'm haveing a pretty hard time at school
I live in NY newcity
and i feel like a loser

well..i don't have the looks ( what girl will think a asian guy is cool anyway )
my body...no guns on it ether
i'm not smart
and i'm pretty shy with people i never met
yep i'm a loser
what should i do?
at least i never talk behind peoples back and stuff lik that

but just with that im never gonna be a cool guy
i go to a high school
and i dont do stupid things..
and try to joke all the time, my jokes arn't that bad but its usally just one laugh or their laughing at me because i do make really stupid jokes

ugg..i suck..SUCK at football
im just a ugly weak asian piece of ****

what the hell should i do!!

2006-11-01 11:52:02 · 16 answers · asked by Jin 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

im an asian girl and i once felt like a loser too lol cos i felt abit out of place in world but you have to love your individuality. dont change yourself because you are cool they way you are. whats cool anyway? being in a popular group? its just a high school pressure thing cos once you are out of school, being cool wont matter so much. dont try so hard, enjoy being young

2006-11-01 11:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

dude, calm the f*ck down!!! i can predict the future... within the next 2 months, u will make loads of friends, everyone of them will like u giving u the confidence to ask this really nice girl out and she'll say yes so u gotta gf and she will start to be clingy, but u will love it cause she is great and u will suddenly realize that u were a fine person in the first place and u will be amused that u of all ppl could have asked this question, and u will look at how far u have come in such a short time... the moral of this prediction: be confident no matter how bad it seems, things will turn up for u

2006-11-01 11:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

breathe, not everyone thinks asians are ugly, I don't all you need to do is take a few minutes and calm yourself down. Go to places that you like to go if it is to a park go there and just relax think about what you really want then after you do that go home and write it down then do it, if you like a girl just go and ask her out be original, be your self, if it's football work out when football isn't going on surprise everyone show them that your not just a scrawny asian guy not that I think that and always remember that just because people that you know don't appreciate you doesn't mean we all don't, if you have any more questones just shoot me an email I'll gladly answer. my email is mjmojo42069@yahoo, remember keep your chin up, little asian dude. Also have a great day.

2006-11-01 12:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by amerine09 2 · 0 0

you remind me of myself a few years ago except that im an american. Take this advice, make it so they don't think your trying too hard. Laugh at other people's jokes, but not too much. Be nice to all of the girls. They will soon be nice to you right back! Find some other sport that your good at, if you can't find one then learn to play the guitar. Take my advice and see what happens...

2006-11-01 11:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by farmer 2 · 0 0

Why do you think you have to be cool or popular? School is for studies. If you get yourself involved in some school or outside activity that you like and makes you feel good...then that 'good' feeling you have will be reflected on the outside. People will like you for who you are not who you are trying to be.
Tons of kids go through school the same way as you do and live through it. hehe. When I was in school years ago...I considered it my 'job'...not an adventure in popularity. Good luck to you!! Peace.

2006-11-01 11:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just get better at foot ball... foot ball is just a tough sport so study hard make friends and you ll get what you want... just don't be a geek, or nerd lol. just be your self girls will like you for what you are not for what you have or if you're loaded

work out do something (lose weight if your fat)
or just don't thing about it and just live with your life i mean i was fat and geeky and look at me now I'm three timing girls

stay in school don't do drugs and don't go near Michel Jackson

2006-11-01 11:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Miguel 2 · 0 0

Is it a song or what?
just kidding..:)
Hey don't feel like a loser.I'm also an asian and I'm proud of it Just keep on proving them how differently good you are and someday they'll appreciate you..Good luck!;)

2006-11-01 12:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by honeymay 2 · 0 0

oh ..my god ! i was just like you b4 when Ive lost my ex-gf .... i know what are you talking about ..its really horrible ... but at first you should change your point of view ... be Lil bit selfish ... think in that way ... me & i &myself..**** the rest ..... try to act like a person who knows every thing .. the more you belive in your self ..others will respect you better .....try new clothes ... find a girl friend .. if you cant find a cute once .. ugliest one at least .... if you can register in such a dance club or classes ...it will be possative

2006-11-01 12:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by Prince Of Persia 3 · 0 0

Be happy with what you are. Girls should choose you for what you are not because you are handsome or full of cash in your pocket. Those girls choose you for what you are will stick with you longer than just the others, who just want to use you. Be happy, and pray, you will be a born winner one day.

2006-11-01 11:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by THILLAI a 2 · 0 0

Start working out at the gym?

2006-11-01 11:54:29 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0 0

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