see there is this guy he always flirts with me (and i am in love with him).but i heard that he likes this other girl and when i was walking i seen him like flirting or something. help what to do?
2006-11-01 11:50:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What exactly is the question here? In the end it is up to the man. He must decide who he wants to diddle and quite frankly you have no control or decision over it.
2006-11-01 11:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by roshambo76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. He is a player and he will not be a one woman man. they are out there in droves. So, if you don't want the reputation of being used by him, stay away and save yourself the heart ache. you are attracted to him. You can'tbe in love, you haven't spent enouth time together. You are attracted to him because a lot of girls probably are and a lot of them are gonna be used and hurt because he is a player and it's easy when all the girla like you and you are a flirt. Save yourself fot the right one. He'll show up when you aren't looking and you may not even see him because you are looking at this guy. Be careful to not overlook the good guys that cross your path. Advice from someone who did all the wrong things and finally ended up with the nice guy for 15 yrs. now because I got tired of the other ones. They weren't around very long. Good luck.
2006-11-01 20:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him. So first of all get that out of your head. Obviously you are young, so let me give you some advice. Never, ever get hung up on a guy until you've dated him long enough to know him extremely well and you know that he is a good person and feels the same about you. In finding out if he is a good person who will treat you right, dump him if he 1. cheats on you 2. treats his mom like shi* 3. talks shi* about everyone 3. verbally abuses you 4. flirts with other girls in front of you 5. tells you what to wear 6. tells you he wouldn't be with you if you were with a guy of a certain ethnicity 6. goes out for a boys night out and doesn't answer your calls, and doesn't call you back until the next day.
The gist of what I'm saying is......be careful, very careful, who you give your heart to. Fu*k guys, this is your life and its all about you. Start calling the shots.
2006-11-01 19:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the guy that you like him! its better to know than never know at all! Belive me! say something like this--->
Dear --------,
I just wanted to tell you that i like you more than just as a friend... i heard you liked another girl but i still wanted to tell you. Better safe than sorry right? this is really hard for me to do becuase its hard to tell somebody you like that you like them. I was just wondering how you feel about me. If you dont love me i understand and i hope this wont interfeer or ruin our friendship that we have. Please respond.
thanks
From,
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there ya go! i said the same thing to the person i liked
2006-11-01 19:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by xsolast_summerx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him, try to get him, flirt, or if he's like me slap him and play hard to get
2006-11-01 19:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he flirts with everyone. just move on to someone who realy cares.
2006-11-01 19:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it!!!! what have u got to lose if he likes u well then u scored if not well at least its better you find out now then later
2006-11-01 19:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by !!David!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ask this guy that you like and if he likes you go for it That is what I would say
2006-11-01 19:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by Clinton b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep talking to him
and maybe just tell him how you feel
if he likes you then you will find out
2006-11-01 19:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by bob123456789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone! find a new interest!
2006-11-01 19:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by ruthie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋