I have been totally over the top for a guy I worked with way back when. After I told him how I felt, he said he was surprised then promptly ignored me like the plague, so I simply left him alone and went away. No contact at all with him or his family, whom I also knew, for well over a year. Then one day, out of the blue, his dad called me with a totally lame home and garden problem the object of my unrequited affection was having and said he needed my help with. Then he wanted to know how I was doing, etc. I am not sure what to make of this. I have not spoken to any of them for well over a year. The call confused me. Why would this guys dad call me with a problem he could have resolved by going through the Yellow Pages? What do you think??
2006-11-01 11:29:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he has grown up and realized you were a big loss.. but you will be taking anothr chance so go with caution... find out what the deal is.. it will bug you if you dont..
2006-11-01 11:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by mmm..whynot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would not put too much thought into. Not because there isnt something there, Merely, the fact that you never want to get ahead of yourself or get your hopes up. My ex-boyfriends dad, as well as, my exboyfriend still call my phone. At first, I got my hopes up, and its been over a year now and nothing. I dont know if anything will happen in the future, but i have to live for right now, and not for the chance I have tomorrow
2006-11-01 11:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what to make of this phone call out of the blue but if I were you I would not give him the time of day. If he didn't reciprocate your feelings back then, what could be so different now other than the fact that he's been dumped or rejected by someone else. My advice is don't look back, it's his loss not yours.
2006-11-01 11:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like they would like to have u back in their lives, but just aren't sure how to go about inviting u back. believe it or not some people are just at a loss on how to communicate and sometimes they just don't do it at all due to embarassment. if u would like to hook up with the guy again i would definately give him and call and see where it goes! Good Luck!:)
2006-11-01 11:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mulattogurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe, let's not think about why he is calling. there could be 101 reasons for that. and assuming reasons could lead to unnecessary excitement.
let's think about whether you are going to give this guy's dad help wth his home and garden problem. and if you are ready to face these people after a year.
you may never know what may happen from here.
2006-11-01 11:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anna D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is the dad would love for you to date his son..but I'm not sure how the son feels. It sounds like if the guy wanted to reach you he knows how. I would write if off to family meddling.
2006-11-01 11:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT GO BACK. i dated this loser once and he left me when it suited him and had me when he wanted. when he realised what he was missing out on, he would get his bloody mother to call me and she would talk about crap and weave her sons name in there and say he misses me etc. stay away from those looney families. they wanna control you and they think they can come and go when they please. forget it, they are messing with you. its too late
2006-11-01 11:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HIS dad has the hots 4 you. WATCH out
2006-11-01 11:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋