I need to know what to do about this?

Question

Every damn job that I have had, someone has pointed out to me that I am defensive, strong willed or something else. As far as being/ sounding defensive- I think that I am just overly sensitive and I try to work on it, but its like I cant. I dont know how to react to certain situations to where I end up reacting negatively about it. And end up hating everyone there. As far as strong willed- I dont see anything wrong with it other than it may seem that I may on the attack of that person when speaking to them. I dont mean to come across that way...I really dont. I just want to tell them to get my point across. I just cant take constructive critism well I guess.

I really dont know why I am this way. I cant explain it. I am so tired or people complaining about me, telling me that same **** over and over, my mom not wanting to listen to me and telling me that I whine and complain too much when she complains too and I have to hear about it

Any suggestions?

Answer 1

Try listening to your subconscious mind right before you react negatively. If you can do that then you will find out what it is that is offending you.Example.... When someone trips most people get embarrassed and some people laugh at you cause it was funny. You seem like the person that would trip, get embarrassed, then immediately following that feeling you would get mad.Am I right? If so, you have an insecurity problem. Just work on your self esteem and you will not be the way that you describe yourself. Good Luck!!!

Answer 2

Ok, first of all when you are at a job.. the boss it the boss. You will have to get used to that. Taking direction and being told what to do is something you HAVE to be able to deal with.

You may be overly sensitive, but you CAN work on it. Realize that your boss isn't the enemy. Your mom isn't the enemy. Don't be so argumentative. Maybe you need some mental help or counseling. Just chill out...relax.

Answer 3

ok dont go the other way and be a door matt