Ya i met this girl like a few weeks ago and she llooks my age and acts my age and we both really like each other but i just found out that she is only 13 and im 15 i couldnt believe it so should i go for it or jus be friends or jus dump her
2006-11-01 11:28:14 · 16 answers · asked by Matt L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm ok but pretty soon she will still be a minor and u won't
2006-11-01 11:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For now, just be friends. It may just be two years, but she's too young to be in a relationship. In a way, so are you, but there are double standards. You'll get teased if you don't have a girlfriend at 15 years old. I think 15 is too young for both genders. Plus, no offense to you, but guys your age are extremely into one thing. 98% of you are walking hormones. Again, no offense, but I'm afraid you'd want something from her that she's not ready to give. Most guys you're age would either pressure her or dump her if she didn't accommodate your request. In any event, she may think she's ready, but she's too young. Do you know how many girls in middle school get pregnant because they're uninformed, pressured into it, and/or think they're ready to have sex? I say be friends, and in a couple years, if you feel the same way about each other and both of you are single, go for it. For now, friends is better than more than that. Please, remember what I said no matter what decision you make.
2006-11-01 19:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by viva_bamm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is too much of an age difference, however because you're in high school and she's in middle school it will be viewed negatively I'm sure by her parents. If you both were in high school it would be different. I know this sounds strange but there's something about society having trouble accepting this if you know what I mean. Iw ould be friends at least until she turns 14 or is in high school. What's the rush. It will give you time to get to know her.
2006-11-01 19:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it's only two years and if you both like each other there's no reason NOT to go out with her yet and is that really fair to dump her because of age?? I'd say go for it and see how it works out!
2006-11-01 19:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by amagaldi_star 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya'll should just keep it at being friends, cuz last time I checked, she's prolly in the 8th or 7th grade, and you're in the 9th or 10th...so I'd just be friends w/her, and also you can hang w/more girls...but you could go for it...if you told her you love her though...you are in a tight spot...Good Luck & God Bless!
If you dump her, don't softshoe it but don't just be harsh w/her...
2006-11-01 19:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The decision maker would be if she's in the same place in her life that you are.
That means do you have more freedom then she does....do you have a curfew that's close to hers....is she allowed to date.
If you really like her and you're willing to live by the rules in her family.....go for it.
2006-11-01 19:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 and 15 are not that far apart. Go for it.
2006-11-01 19:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for her dont dump her cuz shes younger than you by 2 years my grandma and grandpa are 16 years apart but did that stop them hell no!!!!
2006-11-01 19:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by taco 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not much difference in age why not ask her out. as you said she acts older. read tips on dating and more to help you on this site
2006-11-01 19:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by bitshy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GO FOR IT. I mean shes only 13, so shes a teen.
2006-11-01 19:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋