When you are dating a girl and the two of you have ALOT of chemestry, and she is dating someone else also. And you tell her how much you care about her. And she says "give me some time, but i still want to see you" what does that mean ? Does she want to date both of us and pick? Does she want to play us? Or does she want to decide between us and dump the other? Should i ask her what she ment? or let her come to me?
2006-11-01 11:19:08 · 21 answers · asked by Richard J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mate, don't rush her now. Don't be too pushy. Sit back, talk to her but don't constantly annoy her with uestions and stuff. Be cool.
She does like you, main thing, remember it! The thing she means is that SHE DOES NEED MORE TIME. Not to decide no...
She is in a relationship mate, she can't just leave a guy and straight away go with you. She must do it over sometime, if she says something like that she means that she likes you too.
That's all you need to know, she basically said she likes you. All you can do for now sit back and don't rush her. She will tell you herself when she is ready and when she left her boyfriend, you'll see ;)
Just wait. Talk to her as nothing happened, as usual. Don't try to play this stupid game, "you got a boyfriend then I gonna ignore you" worse thing you can do.
Just be yourself and act as you usually do.She'll do the same and when time comes... she will let you know.. :)
If you really like her, you'll wait :)
Best of Luck and Best Wishes, Wolfy.
2006-11-01 11:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by lone_wolf_time_to_change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
I am pretty certain that your female friend is wanting you to be just a friend to her, and possibly because she is wanting to do one or even more of the things that you have said. She may just really be so overhelmed that you like her and is excited by the attraction you have towards her and doesn't really know what she is going to do with it?.
I would recommend continue being her friend even though she is with this other guy and if you can manage to do this. If she dumps him for you then there is nothing in the world that will stop you from being together, but only if she ends her relationship and because she wants to. Do not allow her to make any moves on you until she has stopped seeing this other one first and don't ask her to leave this boyfriend because that also has to be her choice.
I wouldn't ask her anything about what she meant as this might make her feel uncomfortable and push you away if she does genuinely like you. Wait for her to make the decision, but don't expect her to make one about you as you don't really know if she does like you any more than as a friend.
Finding a girlfriend of your own will be my best advice and because you can't put your life on hold for her when you are only friends at this stage. If she changes her mind and wants to be more, then that will be her loss if she has left it too late, but waiting around for her isn't going to acheive anything and the more hurt you will be whilst she is still with this other guy.
2006-11-01 19:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Shikira-trudi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Hunni u are getting played sooo bad.. And I know because I made up the rules on that one.. Let me guess you spend money on this girl and take he just about where ever u can right?.. Look walk away I know it might be hard but I'm sure u can do sooo much better then that.. U sound like a nice guy.. Get someone that wants u and u only if she needs to pick.. U can do better
2006-11-01 19:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Richard, I think that she just considers the both of you as friends. Yes she may go out with the both of you at different times and that is fine. She is just going out with friends and having fun. she may like you alot but was probably not ready to hear from you how deep your feelings felt for her. She was probably not at that stage and just needs a little bit of time before getting there. Give her some space Richard but also still be her friend. You don't want to go to fast, the both of you are young yet. Let the ride continue,,,,,,,,,,it is only the beginning. Good luck.
2006-11-01 19:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's playing you. You are providing something that she likes. Maybe you have money or you can talk to each other easily. The other guy is providing something that you are not. Might be a physical (manhood) thing. Only she knows. I wouldn't let her use me that way. She a two-timer and that could spell bad news for you in the future. If she can't commit to one man now, what makes you think she'll commit to only you later? See what I mean?
2006-11-01 19:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants both of you dudes, but can't choose who she likes more. I think she might be playing you both. No matter how great the chemistry is, you don't deserve to be treated like a toy. Obviously, you would like her to yourself, but she is not going with idea. Hm. My advice is to drop out of this relationship and see if she really cares about you enough to come after you.
2006-11-01 19:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by jelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let her choose between two of you now.. Do you want to share her with someone else? Moreover, you never know who will she "pick" at the end.. Don't wait for nothing.. Let her decide
2006-11-01 19:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break it to you but it probably means she's gonna juggle both of you until one of you busts. If you really like this girl give her a week and if she doesnt decide, dump her. No girl is worth getting played. No matter how hott she is.
2006-11-01 19:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the door open, but start looking elsewhere, too. If you start dating someone else, you'll be less worried about her and she might decide you're worth committing to.
2006-11-01 19:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by MathGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your unsure ask her. But she is probably just having fun. Date her but dont get to attached. She will pick eventually. But it might be guy # 3
2006-11-01 19:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by pryncess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋