My ex bf and i are talking again...and there is a chance we might get back together. things have been going really good until today when he asked if we do get back together how far ill go with him. is that totally weird if i got mad at him for asking that? i even said its like all he cares about now is getting down my pants. and then he said no its not like that and you know its just i havnt done stuff with you in awhile and i want to and i want to go far. honestly who says that? it really made me mad and i am not the kind of girl who just will do anything with a guy. is it bad that i got mad? or wat...?
2006-11-01 11:13:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Theres two parts to relationships. Sex, and emotions, if he thinks youre never going to have sex with him, he will move on and find some other chick who will. Just tell him you will but you need a little time, otherwise if you're not ready, go find someone else.
2006-11-01 11:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Josh V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was being honest. And that is really what he is looking for.. he is looking for a girl that will let him go as far as he wants to go.
So.. if you don't want to go all the way (which is what he is after) then let him know so he can move on and find someone who will!!!
Its not a dis on you.. its him being upfront and honest about one thing he wants out of the relationhip.
If you don't want to offer that then don't.
2006-11-01 11:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl! Be mad, be very mad. He was just looking to hit it, and that's the feeling you got. Move on, and feel good that he's out there thinking of what he's missing!!
2006-11-01 11:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Barry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, be mad. He is a jerk for asking that. I;d be sure not to do anything with him atleast the first month at all. If he is just dating you because he thinks he can get in your pants he will get bored in that month and move on to another girl. Good riddance!
2006-11-01 11:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
always follow your intuition. if his question hit you the wrong way, there is a reason for that. your intuition is telling you all he wants in a relationship is sex with you...other wise the question would be a moot point. if you get back together and you and he are doing well together the rest comes naturally. his asking is a sure sign that all he wants is sex
2006-11-01 11:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by universalist49 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it's not weird that you got mad at him. I would too. Obviously if he got back together with you and then is asking you that i would say hell no and i would break up with him.
2006-11-01 11:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by Caiti 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you're easily wonderful. and that i'm no longer basically declaring that, I assure you. you're extremely suited. If someone develop into speaking undesirable about you, it skill they were jealous of you...distinctly in the journey that they were fellow females. yet no, you're wonderful!
2016-10-16 07:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be mad, he's playing you. If you get back together with him and don't let him get in your pants then he'll leave you. If you let him in your pants then he'll leave you when he's done. I say don't get back together with him and save yourself the problems.
2006-11-01 11:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by tollerx2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is thinking of his own sexual gratification. You were right for getting mad. He needs to grow up and not force you to do things you're not ready to do.
2006-11-01 11:16:17 · answer #9 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First, he's a moron for asking. You don't want to spread his genes around.
Second, if you're his girlfriend he shouldn't have to ask. It's a right. If you're not going to give it up then you shouldn't date him. Of course, if he's that much of a pansy that he has to ask then I don't blame you.
This is all assuming you're not underage of course. If you are then cut it out and do your homework. You'll regret it later in life if you don't.
Satan
2006-11-01 11:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by Devil 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋