My friend is going to introduce me to this girl that I was supposed to get introduced today but I kind of chicken shitted out of it. I have had a major crush on her since school started. The problem is I got to meet her tommorow during lunch for sure this time and I am shy as hell. What would be a good thing to say to make a good first impression? Also what would be good to say to start a conversation ? On another note she doesn't speak alot of english but my friend told me she would understand a lot of what I would say so help...?
2006-11-01 11:10:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She knows I like her a lot to.
2006-11-01 11:13:38 · update #1
And she knows im very shy.
2006-11-01 11:15:04 · update #2
OK, chill out. She wants to meet you!!!! That says something. Don't drink a lot of caffeine tom. Take some deep breaths before you get into the room. It lowers the BP a few points, really. Then, Tell her that you are shy and don't have a clue wht to say. Girls love that. Especially if she has trouble with English. She knows how you feel, think she isn't nervous too? Just being honest is adoarable and asking her if she wants to take a walk or go to another area or to the park or something might help, walking and taking in the scenery. you could ask her to talk about herself, girls like that too. Ask where she's from, how long she's been here, ask about her family and how often she goes home , if ever? Ask what her interests are and comment on them. Questions are giving her a chance to talk, fills time and you get to know her better and she can then ask you questions. Ask if she's been to the local zoo, or theatre,or whatever you have around, if not see if she'd like to go sometime. Just be down to earth, don't try to impress and show an interest in her...you'll do fine. OK? Get some sleep tonight and no chickening out...she's just a girl...like you are just a boy ok? ok.
2006-11-01 11:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best conversations start by just being yourself and talking of whatever comes to mind in the moment:) jeje but if you want to go prepared, just to feel more confident you can talk about movies...it's an easy topic and a very flowing one so it can get the conversation to start, you can also talk about...well music that is probably the same as movies jeje.....books, ask her about books which is her favorite one the most recent one she has read, if she likes reading, you can share a little funny anecdote, make her laugh it's always good;) But the best advice you can get and the best thing you can do is act natural and be yourself!;) hope it goes perfect!:)
2006-11-01 11:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by Delilah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't act like your shy, but maybe a little, just to let the girl know you are nervous. Trust me, when girls find out that the guy is nervous to talk to them, they think its absolutely adorable. I would know {{being a girl}} so...What to say? That's completely up to you and how you act. Make a good impresison and don't be a jerk in any way at all!!!!
2006-11-01 11:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Smile. Smiling always gets a girl's attention. As for saying something, "hi". That's always works to start off a conversation. Good luck with her. I hope things work out between you two.
2006-11-01 11:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by luv_dec21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself... if you act like someone else and she likes you then she doesn't like you, she likes who you pretend to be. Try just chatting, once you break the ice then it will come easily... talk about things that she seems to respond well to or enjoys talking about. Don't try to get into things too quickly, she might like you as a friend, and you should enjoy that friendship, but if you think that it might end up as something more, you should take it slow.
2006-11-01 11:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Smile at her, hold her gaze. Talk about something that intrests her, if she doesnt speak english ask her what language she speask at home. Tell her you'd like to learn it. Ask if she will be your tutor and help you. If she likes you she will say yes.
2006-11-01 11:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im havin same problemo. Ill wait for other ppl to answer, so that itll help me. BUT W8 If shes asian and youre not...... then ITS GONNA BE A TOUGH BATTLE SOLDIER, coz asians are very closely tied to their parents and they date only their wn kind. Im not saying that all of them are RACIST, just keep trying man, dont stop. BEST OF LUCK.
2006-11-01 11:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
while at artwork determine you communicate to her, make eye touch, smile and wave. finally you will arise the nerve to introduce your self , tell her you have observed her for sometime and replaced into in basic terms questioning what it incredibly is she likes to do while no longer at artwork . Ask her if she might like some company after artwork . sturdy good fortune.
2016-10-21 02:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with it, be yourself, if u try to hook up with her, the absolute worst thing that can happen is that she says "no" (if she knows how to say it) part of a relationship is figuring out a good impression yourself, good luck man
2006-11-01 11:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by dabronxbomber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her like you would your best friend. Tease her a few times just don't over do it. Ask her about her culture seeing that she don't speak alot of english... Don't overtalk.
2006-11-01 11:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by thaheartoflife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋