i had a boyfriend and well i dumped him because he called me ugly ( but he didn't mean it he said he was really sorry) he is so nice to me now and i think i still like him it makes me so sad because i miss him so what should i do?????????????
2006-11-01 10:55:04 · 7 answers · asked by Rebecca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how u feel... Just give him one more chance and no more or else he will become a player!!!
2006-11-01 10:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away while you feel a weakness for him because he meant what he said, and worse, HE SAID IT TO HURT YOU. don;t be clueless here. he may regret it and realized that you were a good person. sounds like his picture should be in the dictionary beside the word SHALLOW . You deserve better. Words spoken cannot be changed even with an apology. let well enough alone. and besides that, unless he's seven yrs old, that was really immature. call him an egg head, whether he is or not. see if he thinks that is funny. (actually it is, picture him with one) . bottom line. this is a sign of how he will continue to verbally and mentally abuse you, be it now or later. remember how you felt when he said it, and that'll bring you back to your senses. do you miss having him put the tip of his cowboy boot up your self esteem?
2006-11-01 19:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by justrying2makit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was joking about calling you ugly- you probably just took it all the wrong way. If he treats you well, then you should get back together. Many people in relationships take breaks sometimes, when they get back together they are only stronger. Just make sure that he knows to be more sensitive and understand, he should want you to have confidence.
2006-11-01 18:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him another chance. My boyfriend says stuff like that all the time but the thing is thats the way humor with him works. Maybe your guy is the same way.
2006-11-01 18:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Justine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wont hurt to give a second chance if you can move on from the past. If he makes a comment like that again leave him and don't look back.
2006-11-01 19:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know what to do. If you want to give it another shot, tell him
2006-11-01 18:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by IkeandTina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's only natural. Its your decision to make.
2006-11-01 18:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by Question 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋