im in middle school and i cant get a girl friend because i always have like a million girls hangin around me that i dont like because i only like this one girl shes real quite and doesnt talk much but i love her should i ask her out or wait?
2006-11-01 10:53:30 · 19 answers · asked by VANS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask her out!
2006-11-01 10:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, don't go into all this I love you stuff mate ;)
It sounds like you really like her.
Just ask her out, doesn't matter about other girls, it doesn't concern them, ask her out and don't think that guys gonna make fun of you, if they do though they are losers who are jealous of you having a girl friend.
If you not confident enough to ask her out straight away, then start just by saying "Hi" when you see her or pass by her. After some time you will get your confidence up and will talk for like 1 min, then after some time longer and after all that you could ask her out, if you so afraid.
Btw its perfectly normal to be a bit afraid, first tme its always very scary. You can't even get what you scared of really do you? ;)
If she turns you down, no worries, you gonna get another one, think of it like that.
More you wait more chance she will get someone else, so, I wouldn't wait personally.
Best of Luck mate, hope everything works out great for you two :)
Wolfy.
2006-11-01 18:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by lone_wolf_time_to_change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't ask her out. You must be popular or really cute to all of these girls. Ask the quiet one for her phone number so that you can talk to her without all of the other girls around, they'll get jealous. Don't fall in love to quickly- get to know her first.
2006-11-01 18:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by LovesVanilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes quite, shes probably just shy and if your already her friend you should ask her out but if you dont really talk then just start by becoming her friend.
2006-11-01 18:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by monkeyshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, girls love confident guys
2006-11-01 18:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by IkeandTina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't ask her out but I start talking to her, try and make her feel special and see if she comes around. If comes around then ask her out.
2006-11-01 18:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by soco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead ask her out. She probably will be excited that you pick her out of all the air heads that be around you,
2006-11-01 18:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out.
2006-11-01 18:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by goaliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a time when she is alone and talk to her one on one. if she is shy she may be intimidated but your popularity. Be her friend, that is how to first start off any relationship.
2006-11-01 18:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, get to know her alittle more and be yourself, she might then feel cormfortable to be around you. And then you can reach the goal of askn her out.
2006-11-01 18:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for It son't wait or you'll miss your window to find true love.
2006-11-01 18:56:23 · answer #11 · answered by SIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋