2006-11-01 10:51:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should listen to your fears.
You know the most likely outcome is rejection. The fear is natures way of trying to stop you making that mistake.
2006-11-01 11:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite the bullet.
Fear of rejection and shyness are horrible. they're debilitating and if not taken care of can seriously impair your life.
You have to weigh it up....
If she says yes....endless possibilities..FANTASTIC!!!
if she says no....ok, a bit embarassing (but hey she should be flattered!!!!) and well at least you know for sure . It's not nice, but at least it gives you the chance to move on.
Failing to find out just leaves you wondering what if? Then you meet someone else...and the whole cycle can start again. It's not nice either.
I don't know how old you are, but if this is school stuff, then try and talk to her somewhere quiet, and not surrounded by friends. If this is the case, and you're worried she might turn round and tell everyone then you have to ask the question what do you see in her in the first place??
2006-11-01 11:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by blackeyedkat05 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well just to let your know if you just sit around and watch from afar there are 2 things that could happen you will loose her adn she could find someone without ever knowing your feelings or there is a chance shell noticew you adn she might make the first move but honesly thats not very lickely everyone is secrettly afraid of rejection but remember that shes just one girl adn you have your hole life ahead of you and all i can say is good luck and maybe you should make your feelings clear to her
2006-11-01 10:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Michell G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm lets see. Well i'm not a guy but I would maybe have a friend sorta hint at it and ask her or you could maybe just get the courage up to ask her and if she says no well then get over her because she might not have even been the right girl, not to even give you a chance.
2006-11-01 10:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by Caiti 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ive been rejected before many times just because im to tall for the ladies if your afarid of rejection write a note to the girl and have a friend give it to them so you dont have them in the middle of a big frenzy. hope my tips work.
2006-11-01 10:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by VANS 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
everyone feels the fear of rejection you have to look at it this way if you don't do anything you'll never know.
2006-11-01 10:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get brave and ask her out! Its far better to swallow your pride and take the plunge than it is to wonder a lifetime about the "what if's".
Remember, life is full of rejections everyday.
Good luck.........
2006-11-01 10:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
trust me. go for it. ask her out. you have no idea how mad i was to find out that the guy i had a crush on liked me back, but never asked me out. and plus, if you ask her, it will show you have confidence, which is a major plus (even if it is fake) seriously though, ask her. and if she does shoot you down, then at least you will know. oh and talk to her privately, not with friends.
2006-11-01 10:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by LoVeLY LaURa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's why life is difficult and full of risk. Just go for it. If she reject you, then go find another one. If she accepts, rejoice. As simple as that.
2006-11-01 10:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by Whatta 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just remind yourself before you confront her, that you will never hit a home run if you dont get up to bat!!
2006-11-01 11:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by dr.pepper106 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋