although he has not brought up sex yet, when is too soon, or do we just go with it? We've been on two dates only, and this is all new to me, after just ending a long term relationship.
2006-11-01 10:46:46 · 22 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hm..well there isn't really ever a set time limit for when it is "okay" to have sex. I would just go with the flow. If you want to sleep with him then make dates where that is possible. Like cuddling on the couch and watching a movie. Or having him over for dinner. Either way, it will happen eventually if you two have a good chemistry going. Its all about who makes the first move. Don't just start discussing it haha, just wait for moves to be made!! Which they will :)
2006-11-01 10:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the people, of course, but unless there are medical issues from prior partners or religious convictions to be discussed, you are at the point where most healthy adults start thinking it would be nice to spend a night together. Do what seems good to you and be open and honest if your guy has things that need to be discussed before the covers get turned down.
2006-11-01 10:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how religious you are. If you are having sex for love or just for fun?I would also consider the fact if the guy has been with a lot of people or not.If you do have sex,be careful,The guy might seem to be clean but he is 40--Has he been with a lot of people?or have you? you need to protect him if you have.I believe that people take sex so lightly anymore.Good Luck with your choice,just remember that it is your life and no one elses!!!!!!
2006-11-01 11:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by jenlynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take yr time u still have wounds that r healing & don't let him fill the void. u may still need some time alone but it's cool 2 go out w/him. just b his friend & get 2 know each other & if he's still interested after about a couple of different interesting dates. walking, talking, shopping, eating, traveling, cooking, fixing things, moving, etc.
2006-11-01 10:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. San 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex when you're either engaged to be married or married. Otherwise, you risk AIDS/HIV, herpes, warts, other STD's and the potential to feel used for sex. Don't give your mind, body, heart, and soul to anyone until you're in a serious, commited, monogamous relationship. This usually takes at least 6 months to develop.
2006-11-01 10:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first sexual intimacy should be no sooner than the third date ... but no later than a few days after the wedding ceremony.
2006-11-01 10:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say give it a month or 5 dates (real dates) unless all you want is to sleep with him and move on, then you might as well go for it now.
2006-11-01 10:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 02:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by lorentz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id wait a little bit longer if I were u.Just wait a couple nights & see how things go.Good luck!
2006-11-01 10:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no set rule. Depends on how much you feel comfortable and can be intimate with the guy.
2006-11-01 10:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋