Well I'm in grade 12, I'm madly in love with my girlfriend and we both want to get married to each other. We don't have a doubt we won't but lately I feel like my life is falling apart. I feel like we are falling apart as well... I feel like my school is failing and I don't have a job anymore and don't play football... All my interests are going and all my girlfriend wants is for me to do something with my life. She didn't make me quit its just I always give up on things... I just wish it went back to normal... I only have one class now and all I want is for my life back in order... I'm not doing drugs and I am loyal and she is as well... It feels like the movie "the breakup" but we love each other... I can't explain it but we act like were married and I just want everything back... Please someone help... :(
2006-11-01 10:43:25 · 6 answers · asked by bkxoshua 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello sweetheart, The 1st thing i want to say is ,,,,No baby it is not falling apart. Listen sometimes some schools will not let a person play any sports or extra curriculator activities if it is going to hurt one of the students grades or marks (the teachers care about students grades and want the students to excede and go onto college). So if that is the case then just focus on your grades and classes (school - study-ing). When the grades are doing good for you then talk to the coach about getting back into football that your grades will allow you to. And as far as a part time job ,,,,,,, just look in the classifieds and choose jobs that you think that you would like or be interested in and also call around to places that you think that you would like to work at. Some places are hiring but do not have any adds in the paper. Then you will have a little bit of cash to go out with her and do what you want on the side with your friends also. And your Girlfriend see's that you are down and out and only cares about you so she is trying to help by giving opinions or suggestions and that is all she can do because you are the one that will need to make the changes for yourself (no-one can do it for you). Good luck sweetheart.
2006-11-01 11:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way your going to get your life back to normal is by making it normal. You are in love with your girlfriend and you don't have a job you go to one class in school now. It seems to me that you are regretting what you have done. I think what you should do is take one or two more classes in school and look for a job. Because your life is not going to go back to normal by the snaps of a finger you know what I am saying! I am sure that you want to get married and start a family and have a good job or a good career. Well I think you should be confident and work on getting your life back together and normal. Get more classes in school and find a descent job to help you save money! that is the best advice i can give you I hope that you understand what I am saying and I wish you and your girlfriend the best of luck.
2006-11-01 10:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are stressed because the end of your Senior year is coming up. College and getting a full time job are starting to get your attention. Slow down a little, make up a list of the things you want to accomplish in the next four years (college, trade school, truck driver, get married, kids). Then with a plan things will start to get back into order again. Talk to you Dad, without Mom around, and tell him that you would like his input on what direction you should take. He knows you better than anyone and will give you good sound advice.
2006-11-01 10:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are ups and downs in life. That is pretty much normal. Don't go too high when you are high and vice versa. Maybe you are just bored. Yes people get bored even though they love each other. Spice up life a little bit!
2006-11-01 10:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Whatta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to focus on getting yourself straight and leave her alone for now. You are way too young to be thinking marriage you have your whole life ahead of you to do WHATEVER you want. Start living and quit feeling so down.
2006-11-01 10:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by IkeandTina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:s What you need to do first is calm down...and think...you still have her with you, all you need is not to lose her, and we girls love it when guy open up with us, like they trust us and are man enough to ask for help. Tell her everything you're feeling, she is totally going to understand and help you through this whole thing... Don't worry everything will get better!:D Hope for the best!;)
2006-11-01 10:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by Delilah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋