My best friend likes this 7th grader named Anthony, but she feels she's too old for him. Is she too old?
2006-11-01 10:41:59 · 12 answers · asked by My dad ate my homework 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's all about SCHOOLS. I don't know how your's is but where I live 5th-8th grade is middle school and 9th-12th is high school. Having a high school - middle school relationship is difficult. Also, maturity wise 12 year old boys are a lot less into thinking about serious realtionships than 14 year old girls are-she'd be likely to end up getting hurt. I'd be more worried about THAT than the age differance. I'm 17, turning 18 in March and my boyfriend is 16 turning 17 in June and we're extremely happy together but I've already graduated high school (graduated early at 16) and he's a mature individual....so it's less about age, more about maturity. Maybe they could try being good friends for now and see where that goes?
2006-11-01 10:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by randompersoness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah she's too old for a 7th grader... come on now 7th graders are like 12 years old and 9th graders are like 14.....
2006-11-01 10:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by ==> 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well no but if she feels ashamed or something then she shoukldn't try to get with him but if she don't then go ahead. Also she needs to know that she is more mature then he is so don't be mad if he forget to call u or can't go no where with u when u want to because he is in the 7th grade u know!
2006-11-01 10:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart if someone makes fun of you for liking a 7th grader who carez! Just follow your heart! If someone dosn't like u being friends with tat kid just tell them what you want and how you feel! Youre brave so do it! Your a smart kid!
2006-11-01 10:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kinida, but in the grand scheme of things no. When they are both in high school will it matter? College? Exactly. It's only like a 2 year age difference. If she's really concerned she should pursue a friendship and see where it goes ;)
2006-11-01 10:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by ValentineP 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No,9th grade girls have liked 7th and 8th graders at my school.There's nothing wrong with it.If She likes him she should be going for it.
2006-11-01 10:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by diva_in_blue2010 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No she isn't. my husband is 1 year and 1 month YOUNGER then me! There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with dating someone younger AS LONG as it's all legal! so you're fine! Tell your friend YOU GO GIRL! and if it seems wrong for girls to date younger guys... well then they can just eat it because I see nothing wrong being with my YOUNGER husband!
2006-11-01 10:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course she's too old. i don't want to be mean but a girl dating a younger guy just seems so wrong. i mean think about it he JUST got out of the 6th grade.
2006-11-01 10:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope
2006-11-01 10:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
kind of,but not if it was the other way around
2006-11-01 10:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by drz9kid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋