im a 13 yr oldboy. i just had my first kiss today during lunch. i was sittin next to my girl friend and before that, my friend dared me to kissher before we were going out. she is movin in bout 1 1/2 weeks, so i just gave her a peck on lips[(i might have missed though, it was a crapy kiss) (before i asked her out)] she said "wow, that was out of nowhere. after that, all the kids at our lunch table got me to ask her out, and all the kids tried to get her to go out with me. i asked and she said yes. i ran inito her in the hall after lunch and asked her if i could kiss her again because it was a bad kiss. she said yea. i walked her outside when school was done and i aksed her for a kiss. it was longer and better in my opinion. how do i kiss her good and when should i do it. i kinda wanna make out with her =).
2006-11-01 10:41:23 · 12 answers · asked by jimmy f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, rule number one NEVER KISS IF YOU AREN'T ABSOLUTELY SURE YOUR BREATH SMELLS GOOD. There is nothing worse than bad breath, very few people put up with that, so MAKE SURE you smell good.
After that a few tips:
DO's
1.- Do wash your teeth and have a fresh mouth before you kiss her.
2.- Be confident, go for it but don't lose control it is not all about you, remember she has to enjoy it too.
3.- Start with a close mouth kiss and slowly (with your lips) invite her to open her mouth a little bit, caress her tongue with yours, start with little tongue and progress deeper, this could take several kisses of practice but always start slow let her do some work too.
4.- French kisses should always be in private where you know you can't damage her reputation. She might not be the woman you will marry and if you care about her and don't want her to be subjected to the unwanted attentions of other men you won't show everybody how "easy" she is. In public always kiss her respectfully no matter how much you want to stuck your tongue in her throat. Believe me, if you explain this rule to her she will NEVER forget you, in her eyes you will always be a wonderful gentleman.
Don't
1.- Do not salivate all over her for the love of God!!!, swallow your saliva before you kiss her open mouthed, your mouth should be wet but not excessively.
2.- Don't try to touch her breasts, this is NOT COOL and honestly it is a turn off because she is probably not expecting it and not wanting it. Be patient.
3.- Don't stick your tongue into her mouth like a foreign object, everything has to be slow, little tongue is an invitation to more and slowly you'll know when is enough.
4.- There is nothing worse than a french kiss with a relaxed tongue, try it, relax your tongue and stick it out, now try pretending you are going to lick something, stick your tongue out, see the difference?, relaxed tongue = disgusting.
Ok, I think that's all. Don't forget to be natural and be yourself, the best kissers always consider their partners enjoyment and they do it with confidence.
2006-11-01 11:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most effective strategy to be a well kisser is train so do not suppose dangerous in case your first time is not ultimate. Sometimes humans simply desire to consider they're a well kisser and in no way make the effort to get bigger, simply idiot themselves. One factor is that if the lady opens her mouth too extensive and will get her lips above and under his and will get his mouth all rainy, yuck. Kissing with an excessive amount of stress, I've even had a woman tht used such a lot stress we banged tooth, yuck. When you're courting anyone often you be a foul kisser on rationale simply to be humorous, like french kissing and also you stick your tongue among her entrance lip and gumline or simply do the whole thing incorrect to make it awkward, makes the lady pissed off principally if she is became on. Kissing is not just a useful factor.
2016-09-01 05:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by kushiner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13? Your hormones are raging and you are probably in the stage of pubity where your sexual appitite and curiosity is getting the best of you, not to mention you want to explore a bit.
But save yourself!!!!
First, talk to your parents and tell them what you just told thousands of people who don't really know you.
Second, think about it. Kissing is something you want to do when you are serious and not casual (not to mention older). Then the sex thing is something that you need to examine becasue there are diseases out there that there are no cures for.
Right now your emotions says go ahead, but if you are asking for advise as to how to do it, you are likely not ready anyway.
Save yourself, you'll be glad that you did.
2006-11-01 10:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by Willard S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me, at 13, you should be worried more about your G.I. Joes but if you gotta know....start with your mouth slightly opened keeping your lips firm but soft at the same time and just go with the flow. stay in tuned with what she is doing and respond accordingly. It's OK to use your tongue going slightly in her mouth and circling her tongue with yours and then holding a normal kiss with your head leading the way, letting go and starting over again without stopping the kiss. DO NOT jamb your tongue down her throat! so she passe's out from lack of oxygen. Your kiss should be sweet and tender and she'll come back for more. good luck :)
2006-11-01 10:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by dhwilson58 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok go slow and ask her on a date im 14 and i havent kissed my
boyfreind eather.but we r going to the movies so ask her to go see a movie or go to the park or something.good luck ps u will get beater dont let any one control what u fell tords her but think before u act
2006-11-01 10:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can really tell you how to kiss. the most important thing to remember here is that you need to relax and be confident. she probably has not had much if any experience with kissing either. don't always focus on kissing her on her lips, you can kiss her hand, or on the cheek. girls like it when guys do that.
2006-11-01 10:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is an exploration...give back what you get, always explore her lips with caution, be soft and tender..
2006-11-01 10:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by dr.pepper106 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just kinda do it. I mean it's not that hard. It must have been pretty nerve recking, but I bet you she didn't even notice it was bad (if it was) the second time you did it. Good luck....aawwwwww!!
2006-11-01 10:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by number8rocks@prodigy.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to them , go for it, my first kiss i winged it and so im told i was a great kisser
2006-11-01 10:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u better not or i'm gonna tell yr mommy!!! lil boy
2006-11-01 10:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. San 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋