I think he is going too far because he is sticking his hand up my skirt and asking about us making out when we have just started going out. Please help!
2006-11-01 10:39:21 · 16 answers · asked by little_demon_l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweety, It's good that you know that things are moving along to quickly. I believe that you should sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him that you would feel more comfortable if he would take things a little slower. I believe that no man should push a girl to do something she feels is ahead of time or incorrect. Remember, You are # 1, you need to value your self and make other Respect you. You are the princess, and if he really loves you or likes you, then he will wait patiently and respect your desicion until you feel the time has come to take your relationship to the next level. If he does not agree with you, or starts treating you bad once you let him know how you feel, DO NOT FEEL BAD, He is not for you, even if it hurts you, you should stop seeing him because he is probably with you to get some P*ssy and that's it. Remember you got to VALUE your self and RESPECT your self so others can do the same. GOOD LUCK !!!! AND REMEMBER YOUR THE PRINCESS AND ANY MAN WHO WANTS TO BE WITH YOU SHOULD MAKE ALL YOUR WISHES COME TRUE!!!!!!
2006-11-01 11:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by gatika2oo5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your situation, this is what I would say to him. Because this has happened to me before and I understand the feelings of uncomfortableness. I would say "Look, I think its sweet and all that you want to take our relationship this far, and I really do like you, but I am not comfortable doing these things, until I get to know you better, which I hope I do!" He should take it nicely and respect your decision to wait! If he respects you! Its a good way to find out :)
2006-11-01 18:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about being nice if he's going too far and sticking his hand up your skirt when you don't want him to? Tell him "NO!" If he does it again, he is not being respectful of you and someone who loves you won't pressure you to do things you don't want to do! If he's being this pushy now, he's going to get worse. LEAVE HIM NOW!
2006-11-01 18:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by grlugo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so i take it you made it clear that sex was not an option as boyfriend/girlfriend this early on? because he may not have gotten that message.
personally, i don't see the point of having a boyfriend if i can't make out with him, but then i am 29 and you didn't say how old you were.
2006-11-01 18:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is simply come right and tell him. Most guys hate it when you beat around the bush!
2006-11-01 18:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is bad news and is only interested in sex. You need to dump him because he has no repect for you. Find someone nicer. Otherwise you are headed for big trouble.
2006-11-01 18:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a rolled up newspaper to him and with a firm voice say "No! No!"
2006-11-01 18:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out NO. Then if he dosen't talk to you anymore you will know if he is with you just for sex.
2006-11-01 18:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by get the facts right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are not ready for that yet, if he doesnt respect that, then you need to tell him to hit the road...
2006-11-01 18:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him no --- if he does not respect that dump him
yes it sounds drastic --- he (and all other males i include myself) must learn very early to respect a ladies wishes
2006-11-01 18:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋