It hurts but it gets better after the first couple of times? Well if so how long does it take for it to feel better?
2006-11-01 10:33:49 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well me && My ex had sex lyke 3 times... and it stil hurt majorly
2006-11-01 10:36:07 · update #1
You are too young to be asking that question. If you can't ask your parents then you shouldn't be doing it.
If you are older and married, I'd say speak to a doctor. You haven't given enough information in order to give a good answer.
2006-11-01 10:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by believer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is true that it hurts the very first time. It hurts because the guy's penis is opening and stretching you vaginal opening. It feels a lot like an Indian Burn, if you know that game, it's when a person grabs your arm with two hands and then starts to twist the skin, as if twisting a towel to drain the water off of it.
It won't hurt too bad if the guy is not very girthy - girth is the wideness or thickness of the penis. The thicker the guy, the more pain.
It won't hurt as much after maybe the 5th time, but it will always feel a little uncomfortable but at the same time good...so it depends on how you are built and also the guy's experience.
2006-11-01 10:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, that pretty much sums it up! As to when it stops hurting, depends on the chic and the guy that's bustin' the cherry. Some chics are just built differently than others and it may take more than a a "couple of times" before sex actually becomes an enjoyable experience for them. Some guys are too big for their own good and that only complicates the whole process. Other guys are so small it leaves you wondering if they penetrated you with their penis or their pinkie or if there was any penetration at all. Hopefully, you can find someone who meets that "medium" profile and will be willing to be patient and helpful in getting you to experience the try joys of sex.
2006-11-01 10:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts and you bleed a bit, but for the most part it is not excrutiating especially with a lot of lubrication.
He does have to punch through a thin membrane however and stretch it out which is what causes the pain, but some women already do this horseback riding or inserting tampons, therefore it is not that serious.
However if you have an abnormality such as a closed wall or one with several holes but no real definitive hole in it, then there can be more pain than usual.
actually i had a painful experience for months when i first started having sex with my ex bf, but I was also on depo which could have caused dryness. I bled every time we had sex and was sore for days sometimes i needed a week to heal and the sex was so painful i'd been in excruciating pain afterwards.
It may have been due to his size because he was stretching me beyond my limits because i had only been with a few smaller men before him and I had just lost my virginity not too long before him
2006-11-01 10:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by coochie1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It does not have to hurt. At least as much as you have been led to believe. What it does take is a man that will take it easy and slowly until you have become accustom to it.
And plenty of lube.
The pain the first time comes from breaking you human. You may have a bit of blood from that but not always. Again the pain will be reduced considerably if your partner takes it nice and slow and is careful for you.
2006-11-01 10:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't as horrible the first time as you think, it really depends if the guys done some foreplay fingering- that makes it better. The first time isn't really enjoyable, but the next couple of times get better and better, then you'll love it. To be honest, the less you think about it your first time, the better. People convince themselves its going to be the most painful thing ever, be calm and look into your partners eyes- it'll be alright.
Oh yeah, don't forget to wrap up the donkey... And also, don't do it unless your ready.
2006-11-01 10:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes true. About 3 or 4 times. But with me it hurts everytime because I wait a long time before I have sex again. So it all depends.
2006-11-01 10:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by PrInCeSs P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's true. Can't tell you how long because it's different for everyone. But, if it still hurts after a few months, you should go to the doctor.
2006-11-01 10:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can hurt. It will be different for different people, some don't hurt at all and some hurt quite a bit. Usually if you manage to "clear the path" so to speak, the next time will go better.
Have your guy buy some lubricant, there is no shame in using KY.
2006-11-01 10:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it does hurt for the first time. and it just depenpends on how long it will take to feel better
2006-11-01 10:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by Shauny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is different for everyone..one can give a definite number that will 'work' or be ok with everyone.Depends on the person,size,mindset,age,...a lot of things.Remember to use protection..US population just passed 300 million.
2006-11-01 10:38:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋