How do I stop myself from being to attached to my bf. I feel I am suffocating him with calling adn always wanting to be with him. I try not to, and to hold myself back but I usually only last 1 day of that... and suggestions?
2006-11-01 10:25:52 · 14 answers · asked by Steph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well try playin a sport or bein wit friends but if that don't work then try to plan when ur hangin out wit ur bf u don't want to be less attached ur his girl he should enjoy ur company.
2006-11-01 10:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mitchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't call him all the time. The reason for being attached is either one or both of the following: 1) you don't trust what he is doing or 2) you don't want to lose him. Either way you're heading towards losing him, because most guys don't put up with that long. You need to trust that he's being honest with you. You also need to give him time outside of being with you. He does have friends. So on weekends have one night be "date" night... just him and you, and then on the other night of the weekend be with a group of people... he can be there, just don't be too clingy. And keep calling to maybe just one or 2 calls a day... and try to do that at night.
2006-11-01 10:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep yourself busy, get involved with something that you like to do! Like some kind of class or a hobby.'
DON'T CALL HIM BECAUSE YOU'RE LONELY! Try to just get on with your life!
If you have to cry, then cry!!! Its OK to feel the way you do. In time things should get better.
If you're feeling really bad, maybe counseling might help ease the pain!
Good luck!
2006-11-01 10:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by redirishactress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u need to eg twith some friends and that will keep ur mind off of him u need to try harder because he might break up with u and when that usually happends then u need to get it together quick because that might happen he might just say it over!
2006-11-01 10:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to focus more on your hobbies and friends. Take some time out to spend with them. Also, if you're at that age, your career is always a good thing to focus on.
2006-11-01 11:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your girlfriends, do your homework, help around the house, play with your siblings, etc. You are right calling him every 10 minutes is not a good thing.
2006-11-01 10:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something to keep you busy. Get a hobby. Join a gym. If you keep acting like you need all his time it will start to push him away.
2006-11-01 10:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a hobby, find out of you are suffocating him by asking him, if he doesn't mind, find space for yourself anyways, cause you seem like you are fighting codependancy
2006-11-01 10:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by theskyisthelimit02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't stop yourself from being too attached. you can try hanging out with your friends though. maybe he likes you being around him alot.
2006-11-01 10:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get near him, remember this:
he has a ball of doo-doo in his boxers the size of a pea. Maybe even bigger.
2006-11-01 10:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by lolly679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋