I like a girl and i am nice to her and she is nice to me. I am thinking about asking her to go to the movies or something of that ballpark. I am having one of my friends ask what she thinks of me first so i know how to appraoch her if she is even interested. What should i do if she is interested, She is not interested, or doesnt really care?
2006-11-01 10:17:39 · 8 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of my friends wont make it obvious. He will start talking to her about things and bring me up. Thats how he will approach it. Will this hurt anything at all?
2006-11-01 10:25:05 · update #1
First of all, don't have a friend approach her. That is such a cop-out. I hate when friends are sent as scouts to see if i'm interested. Just go ask. The worse she could say is hell no.
2006-11-01 10:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do NOT ask one of your friends to approach her. That is the lamest thing! Start a conversation with her and get to know her. Make her laugh, smile, talk. But if your friend already asked her (sigh) and she says yes, talk to her and start a conversation and ask her out but if she says no, move on. There is a lot of other girls who would probably say yes. Good luck. Hope she says yes. :)
2006-11-01 18:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello! if she's interested then go for it! she might just want the same things you do. movies are good because it doesn't involve a lot of talking, can be sorta romantic at times, and gives you something to talk about when its over. If she isn't, life doens't end. there are girls who might like you that you didn't even notice! if she doesn't care, it could be because its your FRIEND that asked her and doesn't want to admit she likes you becuz she knows he will tell you her response. if you're getting a vibe from her, go for it. have fun!!!!
2006-11-01 18:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a girl....
You should take her out to eat... (and pay if she lets you) then maybe a movie if theirs a good one, i dont have a clue whats coming up.. But you should let her pick, i know you probably dont want to see a chick flick, but on the first date you should just try and get to know more about her, if she likes chick flicks shes probably going to be a sweet and emotional girl... You'll get to know alot about her that way, by the kind of movie she wants to see...
But if you dont plan on spoiling her forever, if you guys dont hook up them dont start off that way or she'll feel let down later, but if you want to spoil her and make her feel good forever, pick up some flowers before you two meet up...
BEST OF LUCK...
2006-11-01 18:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by ericamarie87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should save yourself middleman and just go ask her out yourself. The answer will be the same anyway: either yes or no. If she says no, then no big deal. If she says yes, decide on where you're going, the time, etc.
2006-11-01 18:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her yourself. The most she can say is no. She won't chew you up or nail you to the floor. So go to her yourself.
2006-11-01 18:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is interested then go and make ur move.. if shes not then keep looking.. and if she doesnt really care then make ur move anyway!
2006-11-01 18:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out girls like confidence
2006-11-01 18:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by wookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋