my man and i have been together for 3 years and its been a long distance relationship, but know were talkin about moving in with each other ... but i dont know if i shloud move to his hood or if he should move to mine or if we should look for a place in the middle?? hes from fontana and i live in palm springs? any ideas?
2006-11-01 09:39:34 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unitl you can find a place that both of you like, hold off on moving in together.
2006-11-01 09:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by D-Wizzle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Moving in together is a great way to discover alot about one another (good, bad, and oh yes the UGLY) especially because you two have a long distance relationship right now it will allow the time you need together, and to test what direction you want to go in. I think you should decide to move some where in the middle, first because you two will make the decision together, and secondly a new start and new enviroment couldn't hurt for the two of you!
2006-11-01 17:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by livlovelaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, then yes, I would consider it. But, since this has been a long distance relationship, you may not know him as well as you should to live with him. You don't really know a person until you move in with them because there are things about them you may not realize until you wake up with them, and go to sleep with them every night. I suggest making more of a point to spend more time together before you move in together.
2006-11-01 17:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by jagerchick80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move in together before knowing each other properly ie by living in the same city. It does matter. Try to move into a city that you guys want to live in and then move in eventually. Good Luck!
2006-11-01 17:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I met my then boyfriend I lived in west texas and he lived in east texas and that is quite a ways apart. I chose to move to east texas to be with him and it was the best thing I ever did. We are now married and I think that living together made that transition very easy. Good luck
2006-11-01 17:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and live together---Personally I would have the person keep the better of the two jobs and have the other move there. I neither job is very good -- then both should compromise and move unless of course one of you has very strong feelings about the town they live in...then the other should compromise and go there...good luck in your life
2006-11-01 17:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move into Marryland..celebs you may have in your neighborhood are Sarah Jessica Parker,Mathew McConaughey,Rachel,Vince Vaughn, have you seen the wedding crashers.You will love marryland.If you are a middle class family $ 66,750.00 income needed to stay there.
2006-11-01 17:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live in europe,i dont know how far fontana is from palm springs..sorry
2006-11-01 17:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by amie_esprit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, if you love each other you should move in together..don't wait until marriage to see that it might not work!
As far as which one of you should move, which one of you has the most to lose?
2006-11-01 17:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you're committed to him, i'd go ahead and get married. couples that live together before they marry are 3x as likely to divorce as couples who didn't live together.
2006-11-01 17:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by movielovingirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋