I always think about him. his eyes are always in front of me. when I said goodbye to him he was about to cry. but I told him to wait for my answer, and he said that he will for sure. is this real love?
2006-11-01 09:38:39 · 47 answers · asked by Shushan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask if it's real love, then it's not real love. Could it grow to real love? Sure. But you'll know when it's the real thing.
2006-11-01 09:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mary K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand this..."his eyes are always in front of me. When i said goodbye to him he was about to cry. but I told him to wait for my answer, and he said that he will for sure." What are you saying goodbye to? And what is his question?
2006-11-01 09:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by [ Xtine ] 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's real infatuation. Love is a mutual series of self-sacrificial actions for the benefit of another. Love requires effort. It must be built.
Infatuation is the first step in a series of events that may, or may not, end in love. Experiment with your own emotions, but not with sex. That will destroy your chances at real love. You have to find out if you're willing to sacrifice everything for him. But most importantly, find out if he's willing to sacrifice everything for you. If that's something you share, then its a strong foundation to build on.
2006-11-01 09:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First if you are young...I would say no. I say this because real true love rarely happens so young. If you are truly in love you will know. There isn't a description anyone can give you. The description you are looking for is within only you. Lots of luck.LL.
2006-11-01 09:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it....
my now fiance and father of both my childeren said he loved me and i never said it back i told him i would say it when i was ready. i knew i loved him but i didnt want to be hurt and realise he never meant it. so after a while a said it and we have been together ever since even though it still hasnt been quite 3 years we cuouldnt be happier.
i find if you rush into things and just say i love you and act like u do because some one else is doing it, its not right and wont work out.
only you know if you are inlove with him and if you feel its right then it probably is
2006-11-01 09:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask strangers, then probably not. When you're in love, you know.
It just sounds like an over the top case of raging hormones to me.
2006-11-01 09:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not enough info to answer...how long have you known him? if youve just met it could be infatuation..it could be the hormorne you produce where you get that cant eat cant sleep have to be near him 24/7 to feel good state...id say take it slow and give it time...if in a month or two that feeling hasnt gone away, then it could be love. I know it seems like a long time but trust me...you dont want to serve your heart on a silver platter too soon.
2006-11-01 09:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is he the person that you think of when you first wake up and just before you go to sleep? If the answer is Yes, than Heck Ya, You are in love!!!
2006-11-01 09:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is what it is. Whether it's love or not has yet to be decided. It doesn't seem the two of you have been thru anything to test your mettle. Sounds like child's play stuff if you ask me.
2006-11-01 09:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by will 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love that you see his eyes everywhere...that can be a definete sign. Just try to understand what you're feeling, once you've done that you'll know if it's real.
2006-11-01 10:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by rox_amillion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋