i hve a b/f who has split personality disorder, he is not mentaly ill or violent which other people make them out to be. he is a very nice guy and i love him to bits,he is kind, gentle and treats me like his princess like most guys,but his personality is showing through him in public when im with him.the other day we were on the beach, he asked me if he could rub sun cream on my back and i said yes, after he was done he asked me to do the same to him,i said jokeingly to do it him self and he got very moody and sulky,i told him i was jokeing but his whole mood changed, we didn't talk for three whole days after.sometimes he embaresses me when we are out in town ,one minute he is nice the next very moody, pls help in what i should do ,should i love him or leave him?i hve tried talking to him about seeing a therapist but he keeps talking and answering to himself that he will go soon.pls help?
2006-11-01 09:37:14 · 5 answers · asked by W.M.D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, you are something else. Anyway, your boyfriend's mpd is okay, UNLESS, he suddenly develops a female personality. Then you guys might get jealous of each other.
(Also, no offense, but your avatar pic would look better with blonde hair & blue eyes)
Sorry; not trying to divert attention away from your serious relationship situation ;-)
2006-11-02 01:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sunnie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a sort of manic depressive or bi-polar kind of weirdness.
High highs and low lows for periods of time.
Why don't you make a date to go with him and wait for him outside? After a few time if he feels better, he can go himself.
I don't know of any other way to get him to go get help.
Also, maybe you shouldn't "joke" like that with him. Obviously this guy has some self esteem issues and doesn't like to be put down, even as a joke.
Good luck.
2006-11-01 17:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not realy, they are as normal just like you and me ,since u know him better you should know whether u should leave him or not, if u love him get him to see a therapist, personality disorders are very common you know, many people hve them without noticeing it them selves so dont worry to much, it is treatable.
2006-11-01 17:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by mr_truth 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no they are perfectly normal people, i suffer form it i should know, if u love him that much ,you should realy ask him to see a therapist urgently before his disorder turns into a mental illness, then if he has improved and gets less moody with u ,then you sohuld realy think about your future with him.
2006-11-01 17:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you date such a loser? Dump his crazy a s s!
2006-11-01 17:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋