i am madly in love with my boyfriend and I feel he loves me too, I met his family we plan holidays.... but he still hasn't told me he loves me. he gives me long hugs and i have a feeling we both wait to say it to each other, but i really would like him to say it first. he is very blokey never talks emotions or stuff or he's hardly ever very romantic with words.
2006-11-01 09:32:11 · 33 answers · asked by petr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we've been together six months
2006-11-01 09:53:52 · update #1
Say it 1st....Maybe he's shy...If you're feeling it then you shouldn't hide it....
2006-11-01 09:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by JennyAnn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't bottle it up, i tried to keep it quiet when i realised i was in love with my boyfriend and it almost drove me insane. I had to be careful what i said incase i blurted it out at an awkward time.
And don't stress out if he doesn't say it back. He might not want you to think he's just saying it cos he feels he has to. Don't make him feel like you're expecting him to say it back either, he will say it when he's good and ready and it generally takes a while for a guy to realise that.
It's been 4 or 5 months since i told my boyfriend how i felt and he still hasn't said it back yet, but we are talking about moving in together so i know he wants to be with me.
Hope all goes well, and don't stress, whatever happens.
2006-11-01 09:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by merihell75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say don't say you love him just yet.
Since you say he is very blokey,
you could be signing up to being the door mat in the relationship soon.
Be cautious, i would lovingly ask him why.
Of course, he'd most likely turn round and ask why you haven't either.
The good thing is, its all now in the open and you can both speak about it on equal terms.
2006-11-01 09:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by esai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think actually i told my boyfriend - now husband that i loved him first put it in a text message saying i love you lots and God loves you more. Didn't think about it till i sent it and realised what i said. If your worried about rejection trying throwing it away - when he comes into a room throw your self at him and say oh i do love you then walk away gives him the option let him respond if he wants to if he doesnt just act as if it hasnt happend and continue with your day
2006-11-01 09:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you guys have been going out! If its less than a few months just wait for him to say it. You can find out in things he does for you if he loves you or not. Called the silent ways to say I love You...like if he calls you often...wants to hang out with you all the time...etc etc
2006-11-01 09:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not tell him first? Girls always think the guy should say it first but I think he would love it if you told him first! Have a great holiday <3
2006-11-01 22:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you two been together?
my fiance said it to me first and i said it back after about a week or so...
i knew i loved him but i didnt want to say it unless i knew for sure that it was right to! most men are like that too.
he probably does feel lik ehe loves you but is waiting for the right moment or maybe he is waiting for you to say it he migh tactually be nervous.
if he shows you inother ways like hugs you kisses you treats you nice and has inttroduced you to his family maybe it is his way of saying i love you!
why dont u give it a go and say i love u first, see what happens?
2006-11-01 09:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it in the next card you send him, Christmas would be ideal and give him his first because then see what he writes in his to you.
You could then ask him if he really does.
Some guys feel really awkward about saying or even talking about it, this could be a good way to break the ice.
2006-11-01 09:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the pressure off the guy. Tell him. Some guys would die to hear that from the girl first. i know i would have. How long have you been together though, that is a question as well..
2006-11-01 09:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by acezr2wild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should wait until he tells you that he love you and have feelings for you believe me girl he will tell you when he's ready do you know when he hugs you well he will open up to you
2006-11-01 10:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you love him you shouldn´t wait for him to say it. Why? Does that gives you the upper hand? It is not love if you don´t allow yourself to say it just because you are affraid he won´t say it back. To love freely is the only way to go. Don´t expect for the other person to do it, you feel it you say it.
2006-11-01 09:40:57 · answer #11 · answered by ICTgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋