Ok I KNOW I look good....I mean everyone always tells me that and I get any one I want even if they are already taken....that makes it more fun. I'll amit Im superficial and I use my looks to get free stuff, and I sometimes use people....well I tell those stupid people the deal before I use them and they still let me. A lot of people think Im conceited just because I dont settle for anything less than what Im capable of getting. And they say it like its a bad thing....and besides the only people who always got something to say about me are ugly and mad because they arent on my level....so whats so bad about being confident???
2006-11-01 09:28:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say things happen for a reason. There was a reason you were made so Beautiful. Why not flaunt it. people who criticize you are just jealous. Being Beautiful and gorgeous are assets and why shouldn't you get something for them?. And why should you settle?. Why drive a ford if you can have a BMW?.
2006-11-01 09:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by mrharderson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a big difference in being conceited vs. confident. Confidence is knowing that you look good. Being conceited is knowing you look good and throwing it in peoples faces.
Confidence is having good self-esteem and a postive mental attitude. Conceited is having an ego and walking on people to get what you think you deserve. (i.e. getting people who are already taken by playing games... not such a good idea)
And you will never have a meaningful relationship by getting these men by what you're doing. If you're being superficial and getting what you want, then what do you think he's getting? He's getting fluff. Nothing but a pretty face, because you're obviously letting all the exterior things mask the interior and you probably don't even know who you are.
2006-11-01 09:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference between confidence and conceited. Yea, you know you look good on the outside you're the ugliest b*tch on the inside.
Looks fade, accidents happen that'll leave disfigurement, and then you'll be on the bottom of the food chain. Question is... who will be there to help you up? This attitude will leave you with limited friends and I wonder if your friends will be TRUE friends instead of bosom buddies who look good in a group or because you get them stuff.
I suggest you take a piece of humble pie and be greatful for what was given to you but just be greatful instead of a priss. Everyone thinks they deserve better but I get a feeling you'll be more of a trophy wife than anything, or a gold digger.
Not to disrespect but you should respect yourself instead of relying too much on your body and use your mind for something. I know I look good also but I do have my priorities, do you have yours?
Grow up.
2006-11-01 09:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dahlias 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of beautiful people out there. The most beautiful people don't USE other people...it's what's inside that counts.
Strut your stuff, be confident! But hey, be fair and don't take advantage of someone just because you can get away with it. You want people to like you for who you are, not just because you look good...there's always someone better looking than you out there!
2006-11-01 09:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by suziq 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing...other than making a lot of enemies and you never know when someone will have the opportunity to take revenge on you.
It is called "karma"...
You sound like you need to set yourself up to be a "Trophy Wife"
Get some care , protection & guidance from a mature man...
2006-11-01 09:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW get off the throne and pay attention to the rest of the world! do you have any friends or do you spend all of your time looking at yourself in the mirror? i dont even know what to say to you. try to think about other people for like 5 seconds and see how it feels
2006-11-01 09:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with being confident. there is something wrong that thinking you are better than someone simply because of the way you look. good for you for shooting for the best....but there is no need to rub it in the faces of those who have low self esteem. being confident is great...being shallow is not...and you seem to be headed towards the shallow end of the pool my dear.
2006-11-01 09:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. Self confidence is never a bad thing.
2006-11-01 09:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by Existentialist_Guru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. There's no other way to be in this world. If you don't know what your good qualities are, who will? (Of course, it's best not to shove it in everyone else's face too often.)
2006-11-01 10:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How obnoxious. There will always be someone better looking, smarter and much much nicer than you.
2006-11-01 09:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋