A mother giving birth doesnt want the baby and throws it in the trash can. Isnt that just wrong? at least put it for adoption for the baby to have a better life!! ( on the news)
2006-11-01 09:01:44 · 25 answers · asked by Trina T 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I agree with putting the child up for adoption. Many children are born to people who don't want or deserve them. Children are a gift from God, and regardless of how somone feels about the child(namely the one who is getting rid of them), they need to realize that the child didn't ask to be born. It is an innocent life!
I had gotten preganant at a fairly young age from just messing around, and when I found out that i had a life in me, alot of things went through my mind. I thought about my teen years being gone and what a disruption it would be to my social life, how my parents would react, and wanted it gone. But the more I thought on it, I realized that the baby was part of me, and if I made it "disappear", part of me would go with it.
Unfortunately, I was involved in a car accident shortly after I found out, and did miscarry the baby. I think of him often, and I know that everything happens for a reason. I had just turned 14 and couldn't take care of myself for one. And hearing his heartbeat for the first time was something I'll never forget. I am now 35 and have 2 beautiful girls who I thank God for every day, even when they are bad!
People need to examine their lives closely, and think of the decisions they make. Adoption is definitely an alternative to look into. Many people can't have children who desire to. And those are the ones who would love, nuture and be decent parents to unwanted children. One thing I can have peace with is that these throw away children who pass on are in a better place then withsomeone who doesn't want them at all. They won't suffer, be abused, or end up doing the same thing to their children. To those of you who can relate to what i am trying to say, thanks for your understanding!
2006-11-01 10:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course this is wrong. A baby is so precious. Some people can't even have babies and try forever and get so frustrated for someone to do such an awful thing to a helpless baby is just wrong. Adopotion is always a positive answer for an unwanted baby. Many people want to adopt babies and you can even choose who gets to adopt. Who ever does something like this should be in jail for a long time.
2006-11-01 17:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of 4 Sweethearts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is sickening what some women do to their children when they dont want them...put the baby up for adoption...if you are thinking of putting them in the trash, atleast have some dignity and take the baby to the ER...some states allow you to drop off your child if you dont want it, instead of throwing it away...they wont ask questions or anything, maybe a name, but you wont get arrested and what not because you are doing the right thing by giving the baby a chance
2006-11-01 17:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by sherichance79 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is VERY wrong!!! That baby didn't asked to brought into this world much less ask to be thrown away!!! But you have to look at it this way this is a cruel world and there are very very cruel people in this world who don't even care bout themselves much les a baby!!! The right thing would to be give the baby up fot adoption, think bout it there are peolpe out there that can't have kids and would love to adopt one!!!! Or need less to say there are people out there that would to give a child what and more then they need!!!!!
2006-11-01 17:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by desire_1014 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i heard about that, it is so sad. i just cant even imagine someone being so sick to do that, there are so many options out there, yet the person chose to throw the baby away. i forgot if the baby lived or not, but whoever did it should be tied up and put in a trash bag and let them see how they like it.
2006-11-01 17:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by krystal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very very wrong, and to this subliminal message I truly hope that this isn’t you. I believe that if you have the strength and will to lay down and conceive a child then you should be able to take of that child. Unless there were circumstances, as to why you got pregnant in the first place. But if it was voluntary, YEAH!!!!! You need to deal with that baby.
2006-11-01 17:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can a person do that i can just imagine a baby in a trash can that cant be helped if no 1 finds he or she because the mother throw him in a garbage can that person should go to jail iots like baby murder
2006-11-01 21:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's wrong for anybody to want to throw a baby in the trush in just leave it there you lead down on the bed to sleep with whoever so why not keep what you lead around to get.
2006-11-01 20:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hearing things like that makes me sick. How could a person be so cruel? You're right - put the baby up for adoption.
2006-11-01 17:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by Hanky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree! It makes me want to throw up just thinking about someone doing that. How dark is their soul to be able to have no emotions when they leave a defensless baby outside in a trash can! Sad, sad, sad. What is our world coming to?
2006-11-01 17:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by Caelan's mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋