I just broke up with my boyfriend and now I feel like such a BI*** but he suffers from depression and a girlfriends job is to help not make things worse and I complain alot making his life hard and I still have feelings for him I just let him go today and I feel like crap please help me I just want to crawl into a box and die. and I cant stop crying no matter what I do.
2006-11-01 09:00:47 · 7 answers · asked by Virginia R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are also in highschool and he is 17 I am 15 and I do still have feelings for him
2006-11-01 12:37:10 · update #1
Yes you can do something for yourself !!! LOVE YOURSELF and wash away yours tears.. girl you know you'd better!!!!!!! About your boyfriend... after to break with him... nothing that you can do ... he is sick and need treatment that's all...
2006-11-01 09:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Hermie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe a good start could be to ask him about how he feels about all of this. Then remember how you feel, you must have had a reason/reasons for breaking up. Between the two of you there is a solution for this, you both have it talk about it and find it.
2006-11-01 17:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you still have a lot of feelings for this boy, how about the both of you going somewhere to talk to someone professional like a school counceler or a pastor, between the both of you maybe you can help him and you out at the same time. Good luck.............
2006-11-01 17:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you poor thing, i know just how you feel, i went through the same thing a few months ago, the only advice i can give you is to be strong, if he wants to talk to you agree to talk on the phone. my ex turned violent sometimes when he was low. best thing is to do that if he needs help/advice or anything but do your best to distance yourself from the relationship as much as possible.
2006-11-01 17:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~hugs~ break ups are hard no matter what end you are on. You did what was best for you, and how can you make someone else happy if you are not? I do hope you are ok darlin if you need to talk just let me know
2006-11-01 17:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Varacha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For whatever reason you must think this was the right thing to do.... I'm sure he will cope, you can't stay with someone just because you feel sorry for them, that not fair on you or him....try and stay friends:)
2006-11-01 17:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by wendy w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww man that's sad but hey eat some ice cream but not 2 much but hey try 2 help him (if he will talk to you).
2006-11-01 17:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by spirited_sincere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋