so my ex and i hate e/o and hes telling peeps tht i gave him head. I'm not a slut, hes my first b/f and i get really good grades and at first glance you would think i'm a goody good. Should i slap him tomarrow or something? i feel like he ruined my life. please tell me what to do. i almost cried today at school after i found out.
2006-11-01 08:58:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did give him head and we r broken up
2006-11-01 09:05:26 · update #1
Slapping him wont help the situation, if he wants to spread rumors, go that route... Tell people that you tried to give him head but you couldn't find his dick. That will shut him up.
2006-11-01 09:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can pull it off and never sway from the fact then You could tell a few close people (kind of a serious kind of whisper) that you are a kind of scared but feel sorry for him because he was so desperate for you that he TOLD YOU that he would make up lies if you even thought about or left him for any reason. He really did it so it is not a lie it is your reaction that will be innocent and confused and "uncertain if he will do anything else" (this may wreck his dating life or at least put you on higher ground) and you sound totally real.
Also it is not uncommon so remember that when you hear stuff about other girls you will understand that it may not be true.
Also, be careful of who asks you out because if a guy suspect a slim chance they will go out with anyone for a try.
Oh and maybe ignore him (that makes people crazy the longer you do it)
Sorry that happened
2006-11-01 17:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by sweet pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie...I know this is easy for me to say, but you can't do anything about what people say or think. If someone is brave enough to say it in front of you, tell them it is a lie. Otherwise, hold your head up high. You know the truth, and if anyone believes his lies, you do not need them as friends anyway. Keep on being the nice girl that I know you are, and the junk he is spreading will be old news in a day or two, because there will be some new gossip about someone else. I am 39 years old, and have recently had some wrong things spread around about me. This is the advice that I was given, and it made me feel better. I hope it helps you too.
2006-11-01 17:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. i know how you felt. I'm 21 now, but my first boyfriend in high school was during my sophomore/junior year and when we broke up he told everyone that we had sex ( which we didn't) i had hella people who i dont even know come up to me and call me a slut and ask why i would sleep with him. i was so upset and i, just like you, felt like he was ruining my life. i ended up talking to him and telling that if he tells anymore people this lie i would go to the police and file a "verbal sexual harassment" case against him. i also told him that he needed to go to all the people he told this **** to and tell them the truth and i made sure to go with him to make sure he actually did it. what happened to me seemed pretty bad in high school, but now that i look back at it, it doesn't really matter. i dont associate with anyone from high school anymore because we all went to different colleges and we all have our own lives now. if i wore you i would make him take that **** back. you can also talk to a teacher or a counselor who you like and trust. good luck and make sure you get his *** back for this. NO ONE DESERVES TO HAVE RUMORS SPREAD ABOUT THEM.
2006-11-01 17:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by bar22bie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH!!!!! Lets put that little boy in his place!!!! I would slap him infront of all of his friends......... or taunt him for years to come! Hey girl you know exactly who you are....... you don't need a fake lowlife like him and his true colors will show to everyone before it's all over with! Good Luck! The Right Time and The Right Place will fall at your feet and you will know exactly what to do at that time........
2006-11-01 17:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by JustCurous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound like a school counselor, but don't stoop to his level. You know the truth and that is all that matters. He is bitter and upset over the breakup and he is trying to get back at you.
2006-11-01 17:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by happyha31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's all the respect he has for you, I think you could do better.
He hasn't ruined your life - yet. Don't give him a chance to do anything else, just dump him.
2006-11-01 17:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by Nosy Parker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do - you don't need to be told.
Here's a hint - someone who has no respect for you is not worth your wasting the smallest tear on him!
Am I right or am I right??
2006-11-01 17:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by HKariv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to go craaazy on him. Hit him very hard several times. Make sure there are plenty of witnesses too.
2006-11-01 17:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is if you hear anyone or think anyone is saying something ...just wiggle your little finger ...im sure he'll stop...then he'll know what it feels like ..
2006-11-01 17:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by she wolf. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋