There are guys who are not physically "cute" or have non-athletic bodies, and they're not rich. But, girls will find them "sexy" for some reason that I can't figure out. Someone really smart answer this in an in-depth way. No stupid comments, this is a serious question.
2006-11-01 08:53:44 · 5 answers · asked by martin h 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This will mean a million different things to a million different women/girls.
Some find it sexy for men to be nurturing... like loving with children. Some find intelligence very sexy. For some it's a great sense of humor. Some women find it very attractive that a guy seems to "fit" in with her family and/or friends. Some find guys who are a bit dangerous to be sexy.
Some find it sexy for a guy to be a bit bashful while others think it's sexy for men to have great self-confidence... self esteem... sense of himself (not full of himself, there's a difference!) Some like guys who are a bit awkward and that's sexy to them because they don't feel like the awkward one themselves all the time. Guys who can laugh at themselves when they make a mistake or do something embarrassing... that says he's not into perfection... that can be very magnetic to some women.
Some women think it's sexy if a guy is kind to animals or the elderly, does community service work or is especially thrifty. They think men who have traits they respect and admire are sexy... for all the right reasons!
As girls/women get older and more mature, they realize that being physically handsome is not appealing if the guy is a jerk. Being physically fit and healthy is preferred over six pack abs, and money doesn't buy happiness. Women are drawn to men for a million reasons... and that magnet that makes them so appealing is different for everyone.
I tend to like nerdy men who are exceptionally intelligent and who are parents... and who don't mind calling me on being rude if I overstep something socially. A guy whose strong about his own sense of morals, but who doesn't mind getting a little dirty with me from time to time :) Men who are socially aware, non-judgmental and willing to work for what they want from life in their job as well as their relationships with friends, partners and children. That's my cup of tea.
However... Johnny Depp in those pirate movies was totally hot - lol
2006-11-01 09:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend , please do not let the fact that 'unhuman' isn't an established word of reference be a factor that prevents you from utilizing it. If your publisher feels it not to be entertaining, then that is another issue indeed. Shakespeare created some 50 new English words per play, on average. Damn the torpedoes, those inhuman precedents.
2016-05-23 05:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybodies view is different. Some men like HUGE women. Why? I work my butt off trying to be thin. Some guys are attractive to us because of their minds or the things that they do or say. It isn't always about looks that makes a man sexy.
2006-11-01 08:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by moonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
typically, they're sexy because they like girls and show it. it's a good thing. very few people will join a pro sports franchise, become a rockstar, or become a successful actor. for them, they're having sex regularly because they're nice people and know how to talk to the opposite sex.
2006-11-01 08:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like people that aren't that aggressive and ones that they feel they can take advantage of. They like being in power.
2006-11-01 08:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by tckk1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋