2006-11-01 08:53:44 · 9 answers · asked by gingey10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone who has been cheated on feels like that..learn to look out for the warning signs but dont go overboard.
2006-11-01 10:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel, its very normal to feel insecure after finding out that you've been betrayed, however not all people are complete a--wipes. Just keep your chin up and take from your experience that not all people are out to hurt you and make you feel horrible about yourself! You sound like your a nice person and whoever hurt you, believe it or not are more insecure than you are. So learn from your experience and in time let go of your negative thoughts, they get you nowhere in life! You must try to believe in yourself and learn to trust again. Its very hard, but time is a healer and you'll bounce back and feel your old self slowly coming back and someone will love you and treat you with the respect you rightfully deserve for being a beautiful and wonderful human being.
Remember, everything happens for a reason, good or bad!!!
God Bless!
2006-11-01 09:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by filmstu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been cheated on in the past but im now in a relationsip have been for 13 years,it takes time to learn to trust that someone special,if u feel insecure the possibilities of being cheated on again could well happen,build ur confidence back up,it will be a slow process but u can do it,nobody wants someone whose insecure,people like to feel trusted,trust in yourself and the right person will trust in you.good luck
2006-11-01 09:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by problematic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all a learning curve- some people cheat and will continue to do so all their life. Make sure the next relationship you have is with someone you love and respect. Hopefully they will be like your family and your best friend- you would never disrespect your family or friends.
Best of luck, you will meet someone special sometime
2006-11-01 09:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by Broozi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a relationship now and it's the best one I've ever been in. I'm still a little afraid of rejection even though we live together and have made plans to be together for along time to come. But we talk about my worries and fears and she makes me feel good. So little by little I worry less and less.
You'll worry for now, that's normal but one day you meet someone and it's ok to talk about the worry and it's ok to talk about the hurt. And soon you realise that the feelings of fear are going away.
Have courage and trust.
2006-11-01 11:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just going to have to forget about he past and dont let the person who cheated on you ruin your future too chin up babe
2006-11-01 08:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by SHAUNA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have too hun...but next time i'm not gonna open my heart up to early....i'll make sure he's worth it first! open your eyes and see the signs! goodluck
2006-11-01 09:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-01 09:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by !! LuBB!n G!ggl3s !! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-01 08:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋