you don't find physically attractive, and you're not in love with him, but you had sex with him. What was hot about it? What was going through your mind that was turning you on to the point that you decided to do it?
2006-11-01 08:50:43 · 10 answers · asked by martin h 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can only speak for myself but if I do not love this fellow and at the same time I don't find him physically attractive.....I can't imagine even being in a spot where choosing to have sex would even get into the picture......and I cannot think of a reason to be involved....why??......if I just wanted sex I would certainly pick a person who I felt was at least nice to look at .....but there are times when things just get out of hand .....things nobody plans on or thinks about ....and if sex happens that's probably all that's going through my mind or else I would think about it and stop it. At least that's how i imagine it would be ..**smile**
2006-11-01 09:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by KorvetteKaren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's just a release. Though most women don't admit it, even to themselves, we can have sex just for the sex itself, without emotional involvement. I slept with a man for nearly 3 years and I was not attracted to him at all. He was a friend and the sex was just sort of an exchange. He helped me through some issues and I helped him resolved sexual hang ups. As to what was going through my mind at the time? I just wanted the release so that I could sleep. Unfortunately, women have been faking sex for generations, so we can do it without being particularly aroused. Just relaxed enough to allow entrance.
2006-11-01 16:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well believe it or not you can have sexual chemistry with someone you dont find attractive and you dont love. That sexual chemistry along with the fact that they are so into you and treat you good does the job.
2006-11-01 16:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you give in to a person, it is not due to their physical attraction, if you love that person, nothing else matters!
2006-11-01 16:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by lady butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly everything is sex driven at that moment your thinking about sex and not the person your having it with. you own imagination can turn you on.
2006-11-01 17:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thinkin' about another really really hot guy....i guess i don't sleep with people that i'm not attracted to or in love with...never been that desperate
2006-11-01 16:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a girl has just got to get laid. LOL
only joking, well not really.
2006-11-01 16:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Doc M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bcoz you were wayy too horny before realizing that you are screwing some one who is not your type.
2006-11-01 16:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by LaoSy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curious to see what you were WORKING WITH.
2006-11-01 16:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by loves2dream2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people make mistakes some times i don't know the liquor i guess?????
2006-11-01 16:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by *********** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋