There is this guy that used to go to school that I have liked since I was a freshmen and I kinda think that he liked me back. He would stare at me up and down for a while and smile at me, or if he was in a conversation he would keep on glancing at me and smile. Thats what happend in my Sophomore year. In my freshmen year, he would do the same thing and he came to 2 of my volleyball games and was just looking at me. He has a myspace and i am not sure if I should leave him a message or just leave him alone...but I would like to know if yall think he liked me and if I should try to talk to him on myspace...
2006-11-01 08:45:49 · 9 answers · asked by Sareesha M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on the guy. If he's a flirter, he's glancing at all the girls and trying to get every girl's attention. Be sure that he's just into YOU and not anyone else. Do you get a chance to "spy" on him at all? Watch his actions and see if he seems to flirt with other girls. If he is flirting the world away, then just steer clear of him. No matter how adorable or kind he seems to you, he's nobody if he's flirty around with every girl.
Okay, so if you are 100 percent sure he likes YOU, then I would defintely send him a little myspace message. Be brief and don't gush about him...that'll probably scare him away. Just say that you like him and want to know if he likes you. Say that you would like to see him after school (or something like that) to talk about it. Then send the message and see what happens.
Or, if you feel bold, go straight up to him and talk to him directly. Speak honestly but not too gushy about how you like him. Ask him if he'd like to go out sometime. Be really casual and cool about it, and be prepared for anything. Odds are that he will like you back and want to go out, but just remember in the back of your mind that he might not like you...it'll save you hours of heartbreak if you remember that.
Also, remember to be yourself. Do whatever comes naturally to you...just be sure you are yourself when you make your move. He will like the fact that a girl is able to be herself and he will probably find that very sexy and appealing. Do what you feel is right to approach this guy! Very best wishes.
2006-11-01 08:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Misscheerios2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm you must be pretty attractive for this guys staring at you up and down like that hahaha. Anyway if you're interested you should just leave a simple message, I'm pretty sure he'll respond back and perhaps that will break the ice even more and he can do all the talking like for your phone number and such.
2006-11-01 16:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Steven Fenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you even friends? I wouldn't write him out of know where if you haven't at least shared a conversation at one time or another face to face. I've heard this a million times and though ANNOYING there is much truth to it. If he wants to be with you he will. He will not want anyone else to be with you so he will make all the moves necessary. Sadily enough it is just that simple. Even shy guys drop hints.
2006-11-01 16:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just post a messege on MySpace saying hey,whats up.Don't try to go to far,or say anything that will make you sound desperate. Try to get to know him some more,first,before dating.
Good Luck!!
2006-11-01 16:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by vball.gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with just sending a message. Just say hey whats up. Dont be pushy or anything just play it cool. Talk as friends or whatever. If he is interested he should let you know somehow.
Like I said, as long as you dont write him a letter spilling your guts about you liking him, its a good idea to say hi. He might like you approaching him first.
2006-11-01 16:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Post a message and say Hi. It's not going to hurt anything. People change. If you want to know this guy you have to start the converstaion somewhere.
2006-11-01 16:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by Bob B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he like you, and you should talk 2 him in myspace
2006-11-01 16:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try what do you have to lose? try it you may be surprised. if you said that he did all that stuff in high school there is a possibilty that he hasnt forgot you at all.
2006-11-01 16:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by emt_907 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't really like you if he doesn't talk to you, mayb he's just checking you out. Unless he talks to you don' date him.
2006-11-01 16:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by Deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋