Well now my ex-boyfriend is talking about lets be friends so we can get to know each other better. I was like I dont want to be your friend after you dumped me. Then when we talk hhe says he still loves me and that he is confused. Wow. And we were in a long distance relationship. He says I fight to much and I dont understand him, yet he still doesn't know if we should get back. I told him I'm not going to fight, but he still says he needs time to think. I have no idea what to do should I let him decide or forget about his stupid confused butt. Im seriously stressing out. He dumped me what the heck is he confused about?
2006-11-01 08:43:26 · 4 answers · asked by ily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi, let him go and move on. Do things for you and make yourself better, exercise, socialize. If its meant to be, its meant to be. He's doesnt know what he wants. Let him think about it for a while but you do your own thing and better yourself. :)
2006-11-01 09:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's confused because he thought he'd be able to easily find a replacement, have fun and get sex. But since it didn't work out that way, and he hasn't any prospects, he thought he'd try to sweet-talk you until someone else shows up. Then he'd start the whole "you don't understand me, you fight too much" routine and dump you again.
I don't see anything attractive or alluring about a confused guy. I mean, a guy who doesn't even know his own mind is somehow sexy or hot? Hardly.
2006-11-01 16:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be confused because somebody just dumped him. He will dump you again if you go back.
2006-11-01 16:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by whymewhynow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats for him to figuire out and you to move on
2006-11-01 16:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by countrygalsline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋