I'm going to marry her at some point, we've talked about it... I'm not unhappy! She takes good care of me and I want to take care of her, but I don't want to be rid of my "shadow life" of chasing other women... I feel bad sometimes, but not as bad as I think I should, considering what I'm doing... feel very amoral alot of the time...
2006-11-01 08:42:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's the thrill of the hunt that you like. I don't blame you, for it's exciting.
2006-11-01 08:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do men do this.... All I have to say is leave her be!!! Apparently your not as happy as you think you are because you are obviously happier flirting and cheating around. Perhaps you are still with her, not because you are truly il love and care about her, but because you know she IS a good woman and afraid that once you turn her loose, another man who IS ready to commit to only her will get her and you'll be SOL. I was on the other end of a man like you. He did the same thing as you.. he wouldn't leave because I was the one he could take home to mama..the girls he was cheating with were less than ladylike and in his words" his mom wouldn't approve". You should break up with her and just be friends until you're ready, because it will hurt her so much to have to find out on her own what your doing. If you were menat..after all is said and done, you'll end up back together, unless your girlfriend finds a "smart" man who knows when you got a good woman, you better d**m sure do right by her.
2006-11-01 16:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by candyred1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel compelled to cheat but don't, that's one thing. That's something you should share with her and work on. If you feel compelled and are cheating, I wouldn't marry her for HER sake, because your lifestyles and mindset about relationships are different. Really. If you're constantly cheating on her and you love her, then let her go. Tell her the truth and break up with her because it's not fair to her, and it's not fair to you.
2006-11-01 16:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Too me it seems like when you have something good going on you subconsciously ruin it, just remember you love her and if you cheat you loose her! I hope she finds out you are a pig and runs!
2006-11-01 17:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by Marcie E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you dont want to settle down, or better yet have one woman, is she showing you enough attention?
2006-11-01 16:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by luvlilsexy21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because, the MATURITY has NOT settled in YOU yet....
whatever YOU do, DON'T get married until you know for sure, she is the ONLY ONE for you...
if you do, YOU will end up in divorce court...
2006-11-01 16:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with looking just don't act on your feelings.
2006-11-01 16:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you care more about yourself than anyone else
2006-11-01 16:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some people are just natural born flirts. just keep it in your pants.
2006-11-01 16:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by countrygalsline 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋