I went out to lunch with a guy I was set up with by a mutual friend. We got along really well and made plans to get together this weekend. I ws told by this mutual friend that the guy seemd to have a lot of really good things to say about me and was pretty excited about getting together this weeknd. I'm not a typical dater so I don't know how games and such work with this, let's just get that out of the way. When he e mails me, it's boring, short emails..not "how are you?" or, "looking forward to this weekend" or anything. Is this beacuse guys don't want to seem desperate? I mean, I know we've only hung out once and all, but he just doesn't seem that into communication. Is this typical? Like I said, I'm new to this dating thing...I've had a BF for the last 5 years and now that I'm ready to date, I don't know what I'm doing! Does this sound normal so far? Guys?
2006-11-01 08:42:00 · 8 answers · asked by trickyandmysterious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of guys only write short boring emails. Could be that or it could be that he doesn't want to look desperate.
2006-11-01 08:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be one of those that have a hard time coming up with anything to send in an e-mail. If yu like him in person understand that some guys do not communicate well in letters or e-mail. Stop thinking of games and be yourself Good Luck
2006-11-01 08:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 22:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way when it comes to emails. I just can't write and write like some people. It's not a bad thing.
I actually have the same thing happening to me now with a woman. I can't get her to write much, but I'm not going to hold that against her.
I think you are on the right track. Just be careful.
2006-11-01 08:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. Don't judge him by the style of his emails. Take it slow and get to know him before getting too involved.
2006-11-01 08:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys usually have short messages and replies and short phone conversations are best also.
2006-11-01 08:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some ppl don't like e-mails, don't worry, & some ppl don't always talk a lot in their e-mails, just talk to him on the phone
2006-11-01 08:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by Deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-01 08:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by bitshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋