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My buddie and I were out the otehr night and he went over to hit on this girl. He returned a few minutes later sayign that she was married. Later that night I walked by the same girl and saw that she didn't have a ring, and also didn't have the band mark on her finger. I called her out on it, and she didn't know what to say, and just walked away.
Why is it that if she wasn't intrested in my friend she didn't just say so, why lie to a total stranger?

2006-11-01 08:38:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

we just do!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-01 08:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0 0

Because Women tend to care about hurting someone's feelings, if she would have said she wasn't interested, he may have felt rejected, by saying she's married, the guy leaves thinking he could have had a shot. Then he is more likely to move on to the next quest. If women were blunt, it might scare guys. Not everyone is the same, some guys can take rejection and some women can be blunt.

2006-11-01 16:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by corinasanc 2 · 0 0

Sometimes guys can be very pushy. When I first got divorced, I would still wear my wedding ring when I went out. I wanted to socialize, but was a little freaked out by the guys hitting on me. It can be scary if you go out alone. Having a ring on or just saying you're married usually ends the conversation easily. So maybe she just isn't interested in dating. Or, she uses it as an excuse to weed out guys she's not interested in - maybe she's just shallow.

2006-11-01 16:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by luvsme111905 1 · 0 0

She probably did... most guys end up making a fool of themselves, and push it... typically we get:

"why not?" (slobber slobber drool drool).

"Because I'm married" sounds a lot nicer then - "Because you are wearing too many gold chains, man" (don't even mention the hairy back!).

Most guys don't take no for an answer, but they WILL usually back off at the married line.

Thank god for that!

2006-11-01 16:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

She probably didn't want to hurt his feelings.

And there are also some guys who won't just take "no" for an answer, so you lie to make them leave you alone.

2006-11-01 16:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by tina m 6 · 0 0

Men take rejection hard, so maybe if we say we marry, you back of with know hard feeling.

2006-11-01 16:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by miss lady 2 · 0 0

Women lie just to stay in practice....or she thought she was sparing his feelings. Either way she is wrong, just like most women.

2006-11-01 16:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jason M 2 · 0 1

she did not want to hurt his feelings. just because you dont know someone doesnt meen we want to be mean. she may have been married and allergic to rings. you never know. :)

2006-11-01 16:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by justagirl_inthesouth 2 · 0 0

It's easier to say "I'm married" than "I'm not interested in you." She was trying to spare your feelings.

2006-11-01 16:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by Whatever 2 · 0 0

well if a girl that REALLY didn't strikeyour fancy tried to hook up with you... you would probably lie as well.

2006-11-01 16:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Cause, some women are ignorant, and don't know how to react.

2006-11-01 16:44:01 · answer #11 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0 0

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