Well I invited my friend over one weekend to come with me to a party, and the only person I was talking about the whole time was this guy that i really like. Well at the party at first he was feelin me alot then my friend started grinding on him and he liked it. Well about too hours later me and my other best friend caught them making out in my truck and that really pissed me off. they ended up togehter, but recently they broke up and now he's wants to hook up with me and I don't know what to do, because she's really heartbroken. But she knew I liked him and didn't take my feelings into consideration first anyways but still what should I do!!! HELP
2006-11-01 08:12:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a player. If he made out with your friend, he should not then turn around and approach you.
Sounds like you need to make a new friend (because she was wrong). Also find another guy, because this one seems to be suffering from short attention span.
2006-11-01 08:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy sweetie
remember...two wrongs don't make a right.
guys come and go everyday and you know what...think twice before ruining your friendship with someone else.
friends last longer than boyfriend/girlfriend relationships
and i'm pretty sure that you can find another guy that's just perfect for you =) and he'll make you the happiest person
then: you'll have a great friend and a boyfriend without losing anyone
and you know what...this guy you like. just become friends with him. after things cool down in every corner and you talk to your friend, if you two are really meant for eachother maybe you can keep the guy and the friend
but for now...stay friends with the whole crowd
byee <33
hope this helped
2006-11-01 16:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by =] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the simple fact that she practically stole him from you doesn't make her a very good friend. Ask her did she know you were interested, I mean, she did see you talking with him and looking interested, right? The fact that he was interested in you, but as soon as some hoochie came along, grinding on him, being "easy" and he went for it, would make me not want to be with him. If it was that easy to be distracted, then let him go. But because he was with someone you considered to be a friend, then he is off limits. Better for you this way, though. He seems like a handful. Anywho, I would consider having nothing to do with either of them. My mom always says "With friends like that, who needs enemies?"
2006-11-01 16:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u value bff or the guy more? Which 1 do u like the best? Ur friend wasn't considering ur feelings but if u r a good friend u wudn't go out with this guy. Bff ex-bfs r always offlimits 2 friends. The guy will come and go but close friends r few. GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-01 16:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your friend had no right to do that in the first place. The guy just sounds like a creep to me. He was going to hook up with you, but then hooked up with her. He wants you now after he had her already, I would tell him to go to hell. If he did that to her, he will probably do the same to you. He is just trying to see if he can still get you to hook up after what he did to you.
2006-11-01 16:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by BrandyB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy; are you guys dogs? there is obvious no maturity or emotion in your guys sexual decisions so I dont' think it's a big deal to be with the guy. Just remember that this guy you want was willingly kissing another person before getting with you so don't expect much from him; grinding and kissing others isn't exactly showing undying love to you.
2006-11-01 16:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and her. I mean if he would go on acting that he liked you then went and made out with your friend he is definatley not worth it. And If your friend would go out with the guy that you told her that you liked, it is just stupid! They are both not worth your time. Find some new freinds and a new guy.
2006-11-01 16:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Juice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do have a problem but this has happened to me before and its just as much the guys fault as it is your bestfriends
i think you should talk it over with her. and i dont really know much bout this guy ut he seems like a player and a real jerk. but like i said i dont know much about him
but yeah just talk to your friends and they will give you good advice
best wishes.
2006-11-01 16:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1 you are right she knew you like him, so i no u feel bad 4 your friend ok she heart break but everybody moves on just do what your heart tell u 2 do follow your heart.
2006-11-01 16:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me HE is the problem..If you and your friend are that close then neither of you need him..Tell him no you can do better..and if what your friend did really bothers you then get rid of her too..
2006-11-01 16:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Just Dreamin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋