I have liked this girl for a while now. I just found out she likes me too. But I have already have a girlfriend. So what should i do? If you say break up with my current girlfriend, then how can I do it without being an @$$?
2006-11-01 07:54:40 · 8 answers · asked by Kenny Smooth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is some soul searchin type thing here. I was in the same situation at one time lol.
First, you got to decide which one you want to be with more. If you love your girlfriend, stay with her. If you're sick of her, or like the other girl more, break up with your girlfriend and ask the other girl out (but not imediatedly! That just causes resentment).
Firstly, there's no nice way to break up with somebody if you decide this tactic. But don't talk to her like it's all her fault - that just starts an argument and ruins what could be of a friendship. Stay calm, tell her you need to talk to her, blame everything as far as feelings and problems go on yourself (no matter how many things about her you may not like), and be prepared for tears. Be as nice as you can when you break her heart.
Then, talk to the other girl, and wait two or three weeks before you start dating the other girl. It doesn't look as bad that way.
2006-11-01 08:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by poochieis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how long you and your girlfriend have been seeing each other. If its been for a long time and neither of you see other people then ask yourself this question. Would you want your girlfriend seeing someone else besides you? Just remember the outcome if you were in your girlfriends shoes. I think theres your answer. If it wouldn't bother you then best to get it out in the open before you invest any more time with someone your NOT sure about in the first place. Right?
2006-11-01 16:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by CryBaby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well... it depends on if u like ur current gf more then the other girl. but i say really make sure the other girl likes u and would go out w/ u b4 u go dump ur gf. and to break up nicely.... "hey. i think we should c other people" or "i want to break up." that's always right to the point! or "i think it would be better if we were just friends" but say it to her face. not over the phone. that's so lame.
2006-11-01 15:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Emy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to break up with the current girl. You would be more of an @$$ for dating someone when you like someone else. She'll get over it.
2006-11-01 15:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be with whom you feel is in your heart...but if you leave your gf for another girl she's gonna think that you're an @ss no matter what. sorry, but that's just the way it goes. try to let her down gently though. good luck
2006-11-01 15:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest with your current g/f. That's all you can do. Good Luck
2006-11-01 15:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with what feels right to you, follow your heart
2006-11-01 15:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aie aie aie delicat situation !!
2006-11-01 15:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by meliiinda 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋