I'm not interested at all and i have told them no 2x's but they seem persistant every time we run into eachother they come on to me. The tough part is we've been friends 5yrs and we do alot of things together for school, politics, and the community. How do I keep the relationship well enough to keep the pro part but stop the sexual harrassment?
2006-11-01 07:54:13 · 6 answers · asked by Lissy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lissy, you need to read the book Boundaries. Don't know the author but you might find that at www.daveramsey.com
My gut feeling is that you haven't been strong enough in telling them no. Next time one asks you, explain that you value his/her friendship too much, and that sleeping together adds a whole other dynamic that you can't predict the outcome. And if he/she values your friendship as much as you value his/hers, the subject will be forever buried today.
Good Luck
P.S. Love those scorpio women.....
2006-11-01 08:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh C'mon! Just because yiu have been together for 5 years doesn't mean you have to agree on just about everything they offer. Use your brains. Don't do it.
2006-11-01 16:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by skepty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them if the keep persuing the sex thing you will have to stop being friends with them
2006-11-01 15:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by jeff402006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell them straight up together that you are NOT interested and if they keep pursuing it, u have no other choice but the end the friendship.
2006-11-01 15:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds interesting...
2006-11-01 15:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't it's a 3-some setup.
2006-11-01 15:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋