what do yu do wen yu are going out with someone that is deeply in love with yu.! but yu dont feel the same way back.! how do yu let that person know.? and what do yu do wen your ex comes back into your life and tells yu that he wants another chance.? im so lost in my own little world i dont know what to do.!
2006-11-01 07:50:05 · 6 answers · asked by H-POO_02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your going to have to make a choice. If you don't love ur boy friend then maybe you should brake it off with him and stop leading him on. Do you love ur ex though?
2006-11-01 07:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Elle :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me years ago... i was the one with a huge crush on a guy who did not feel the same. we became really good friends, then he told that he really liked this other girl in our class. that's how i knew he was out of reach.
in your case, think about what you want to do. the person who likes you will be hurt when you tell them you don't feel the same. but in the end, it may be better to inform them, than to lead them on and make them think you like them. the sooner they know, the more time they will have to heal the hurt. plus, love takes a lot of energy. i feel sorry for a person who spends so much emotional energy on someone who does not like them. remember i am talking from the perspective of the one who's gonna get hurt. i am thankful the guy told me about the other girl, it allowed me to move on and turn to someone who was not already attached.
anyway, the point here is that you should do what you think is best. don't lead the other person on if you don't think there is any chance you may return their feelings. at the same time, if you want to get back with your ex, go ahead.
you say you are so lost in your world, you don't know what to do. so here is some more advice, get out of your world! consider the feelings of the other persons, not just your own.
2006-11-01 16:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by Diane M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not in love, the KINDEST thing to do is to let the person down gently and do not pretend anymore. Follow your heart, and never go out with someone out of pity.
2006-11-01 15:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not easy but you relly just gotta show signs of not really loving them... and ur thinking of your ex now huh, god you sound like some nice guys mistake, i hope they meet each other and fight best way to figure out who is better for you... or be like my old friend and just start f ucking them both
2006-11-01 15:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love that other person back then stay with them. ur ex had his chance and he blew it.
2006-11-01 15:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See them both.
2006-11-01 15:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by Win 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋