ok this guy I really likes has a girlfriend. today my source asked him wat he thought of me and he said that he liked me and if he didn't have a girlfriend he would go wit me!!!! Wat do I do since me and his girl are getting close. Do I back off? Wait to see what happens? Or do I charge full speed?
2006-11-01 07:49:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't break them up what to see if they are meant for each other. don't stop being her friend either
2006-11-01 07:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by auetim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off! If you are mature enough to be in a relationship, then you should be mature enough to know you don't go after anyone's man, that is just childish! Turn the tables...would you like that done to you? How would you feel? For you to ask the question tells me, you know it is wrong, just wait it out, sounds to me it wont be a long wait! If the other girl is your friend though... FORGET about it!!! Even if they split, friends don't do that to friends! Good luck!
2006-11-01 15:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by Princesses Pound Puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off...................he has a girlfriend, so obviously he likes her more than you, or he'd get rid of her. Don't go by him saying that he likes you, because you never know how it would really be if he was single.
Most importantly!>......... What kind of a guy would say that about another girl when he has a girlfriend! How insensitive! Wait til your his girlfriend and he tells people he likes someone else besides you.
2006-11-01 15:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that the best thing to do is to back off and allow them to come to their relationship on their own. Getting involved would only cause pain and mistrust that will last far beyond the "moment" for everyone including yourself. If you really value both, then you must not allow yourself to come between them, but instead go on with your life, find yourself a unattached boyfriend, and be good friends with them both.
2006-11-01 15:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by kamikaze_4021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if he said he liked you, he'd be with you. Obviously he doesn't want to be with you cause he isn't breaking up with his girlfriend is he? That means you just need to let it flow girl. Don't back off, but don't charge. Just take it like it's at the back of your mind.
2006-11-01 15:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off. How would you like it if some girl was sniffin around your man? Are you close to his girl b/c you want to be close to him? If so-shame on you. He's taken, and until he's not, you have no right to go barrelin into someone else's relationship. You should know this. Common sense.
2006-11-01 15:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go full speedand you may find your self with a bundle of hurt you back off find some one else he has a girlfriend stay away from them they dont need you around them when you come on here to find out answers you should already know in your heart and mind gosh and you call your self a friend
2006-11-01 16:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by little_outlaw_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off girl. Dont get involved in it. He has a girlfriend and it will cause all sorts of trouble you charge on in there.
If they break up then over him support and see where it leads. let nature take its course.
2006-11-01 15:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that guy alone. You're going to get yourself in a situation to where you're going to get hurt either physically (by the gf) or emotionally (by the guy). Or maybe both. That's drama. Move on.
2006-11-01 15:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off
2006-11-01 15:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that poor girl probably thinks you're her friend, if you are a true friend you'd back off and leave her boyfriend alone, go find yourself a guy you can call your own, trust me you'd feel terrible stealing your friends boyfriend. he probably wouldn't even leave his girl for you and if he does break up with her for trust me he'll do the same to you. be careful
2006-11-01 15:57:42 · answer #11 · answered by kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋