Well me and this guy went out and he broke up with me for gay reasons im immature i talk bout to may guys and i wouldnt kiss him. I cant seem to get over him but hes over me he nvr calls me i call him he nvr txts me i txt him and sometimes he doesnt even write me back. What do i do to get over him?
2006-11-01 07:42:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out! The busier you are, the less time you'll have to think about him and text him. Although it's difficult, you have got to erase his number and stop calling or texting him. It's not going to make him come back. However, he'll get the sense that you've moved on once you've stopped. He may even wonder what's going on in your life now that you don't seem to think about him every waking moment. Besides, there's soooo many other guys out there!
P.S. Why wouldn't you kiss him? Did you go out or was he your boyfriend? And why were you talking about other guys to him? I'd be pissed if my man kept talking about other girls.
2006-11-01 07:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let yourself relax!Joy can surprise you when you least expect it.You have every reason to believe in yourself.You just have to work for it.Sprinkle some joyful moment for him.See him physically and discuss the issues you have with him or if he has some.What's wrong in being Gay? See Oprah Winfrey Talk show holder and richest woman is also Gay.These days Gay wedding is permitted and have all the benefits like a married couple.well getting over him will take some time...efforts.The former New Jersey Mayor was an Gay person.Gay being is not a valid reason explain him,but you will have to meet him in person.Keep calling-Text messaging-Yahoo messenger IM,email and by postal mail (registered post) why did you allow him on you.You are not matured yet but anyway it's your desire tohave it.If you insisit on him keep doing.If not look for some one else
2006-11-01 07:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my boyfreind broke up with me I had to tell myself everything happens for a reason even tho I didnt know what that reason was. I also heard that it takes half the amount of time you have been with a person to get over them. Stop calling and texting him, if you want to be friends or have any hopes of a future make the guy chase you. Guys dont like girls who do to much, they like to chase not be chased. I know it is hard but go talk to other guys, it will either make him jealous and he will come back or you will find someone else you like more and who likes you also.
2006-11-01 07:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by jessih 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't stop calling him or texting him you are never getting over it. Is over and the best thing for you to do is get out of the house hang out with your girls, go to the mall play a sport and if he really didn't like you he wasn't for you. He might not call you or txt you cause he knows you are all over his nuts and is a for sure you will call him so he doesn't make the effort. Stop and he will soon wonder why you stop and call you. Try it at least for a week and a halve. As much as you want don't call him. delete his number of your cell cause is going to be tempting.
2006-11-01 07:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no easy answers and it may take awhile before you feel like you're 'over him'. In the meantime, you must restrain yourself from contacting him. He's made it obvious that he doesn't want to communicate in any way--you must accept that for your own sake. Otherwise, you're single and free to pursue whomever you want. So....get out there and make a better choice next time. Nothing to gain by continuing to wallow in the past. You'll need some other 'pretty boy' to occupy your time while you're trying to get past this guy....just don't talk about him when you're with the next guy or you'll never progress. Good Luck
2006-11-01 07:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say gay reaons, would that mean that he's into guys? Or are you just using the term 'gay'
Either way- Stop calling/texting/thinking about him. If he's not interested, your constant attention is not going to bring him around. Go hang out with your friends, focus on something besides him and your breakup.
2006-11-01 07:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all you need to stop chasing him--stop calling and texting. If he wants to talk to hyou he will--he can obviously tell you want to talk to him. Being thought of as a leech is horrible. Of you wouldn't kiss him it sounds like you have a long lne of dating a head of you so make peace with this one and another will come around in a hurry.
2006-11-01 07:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldnt you kiss him if you were going out. he probably felt rejected. I dont think thats immature. When your with a bloke they dont like you talking about other thats a fact.
He obviously wants to move on so i think you should. delete his number on your phone so your not tempted to text.
Next time dont tell your bloke about others.
2006-11-01 07:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling and texting him your only hurting yourself
obviously hes not answering so you need to let go
to get over him time heals everything
but hang out with your friends do something you enjoy sports movie etc.
good luck!
2006-11-01 07:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by bob123456789 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Occupy your Damn time and put that freaking phone down! Trust, honey if he wanted YOU he would return your calls! GET OVER IT ALL READY! I am so sick of women toiling over men that don't want them.
Look at it this way: It's his lose, remember!
2006-11-01 07:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by TruDiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋