Guy advice needed please! From male and female?

Question

I will be enternally grateful to anyone who offers up advice or life expieriences.

So there is this guy. I am totally head over heels in love, I think about him. I also seem him a few times a day.

How in the world do I get him to notice me, and WANT to go out with me? How do I get him to come after me?

I really like him. A lot. Except, he doesn't know I exist. Please, any advice?

Thanks so much!

I am 15..and he is 17. Yeah ( i look 17..I cant get into R movies easily) Okay, I am a little shy, I mean...how can I just go up to him?

Answer 1

There is no easy answer. I felt like I spent the better half two years basically throwing myself at this guy I use to work with. I never got any where. We just remained good friends and now we just seemed to have gone down different paths and never see each other anymore. Don't take it too hard if this happens. It just means that you weren't meant to be together and you'll find the right guy down the road.

Answer 2

Okay, first of all (and this will make me sound very evil), you can't love him yet. Do you know his greatest fears, his deepest darkest secrets, and his little quirks that he doesn't let many people know? Have you accepted him, flaws in all? If he barely knows you, and you barely know him, then there's no way you love him.

Now onto the advice. Are you friends? If not, become his friend! Not in the psychotic popping-up-when-he's-with-his-buddies type thing. But find a casual way to strike up a conversation, and get him when he's alone and looking bored. That way, you at least have him happy to see you on your first encounter, making you less nervous.

There are two positives to this tactic: 1)He notices you, and 2)If you become his friend and get to know him,and realize you're not attracted to him anymore, you still have a friend.

Once you're good buddies with him, flirt around a little bit. But don't be crazy with it - otherwise, you'll scare him away. Subtle compliments, listen intently to everything he says, be honest if you have no idea what he's talking about and ask him to explain it (and if you're not interested, PRETEND YOU ARE!!! It boosts his ego lol), and joke around with him. Most importantly, BE YOURSELF. The last thing you want if/when he starts wanting to date you is him wanting to date someone you're really not.

And one thing to remember: If he never wants you, he's not good enough for you. And you'll find someone who is :)

Answer 3

umm..well this is a really hard question, i think its basical universal. I would probably try to catch his eye by either being really outgoing and laughing when he is around. People tend to notice when others are having a good time and when he looks over just give him a smile or if your brave wink at him.... or you could just simple come up to him and tell him you've seen him around school and want to hang out. Either way he will be impressed with how brave you are.

Answer 4

Try getting into the inside by first knowing who he hangs out with and make one of them your friends. Is easier that you start talking to someone you don't like then someone you do. Then just be yourself once you get introduce, work u'r girl magic once inside. Be flirty, yet don't be slutty and get a conversation going without being to annoying or pushy. Take it easy and one day at a time.

Answer 5

it type of sounds like your prepared to placed artwork into it so it actual relies upon on wether or not he's. believe me i kno how puzzling it could be hiding a boyfriend out of your relatives so that you want to substantiate hes on board. if he's then youll both workout consultation. also if he will change into genuine in a position and wealthy then im particular your father and mom will agree that age aint nuthin yet a volume. ;)

Answer 6

wear sexy clothes and look as gorgeous and sexy as you can be and then hang around at the places he hangs around with, know some of friends especially lady friends and befriends them and let them introduce you to him or better yet go out to where they go and go with them and try to converse and catch his attention or if all else fails approach the guy and tell him you have been noticing him and have a crush on him and then he will surely notice you!

Answer 7

He's like most guys, if it's not connected to him he'll forget it; if its not right in front of him, he won't see it; if it doesn't have flashing red lights and a siren blowing in his ear, he won't notice it.

If you like him ask him out for coffee, don't wait for him to notice. I'm speaking from experience. My wife me out first. If she hadn't I'd still be wandering around in the dark.

Answer 8

Well I believe that you should go up to him and start a conversation. If it doesn't work out than you can't say you didn't try. If it works out then you can be really happy.

Answer 9

strike up a conversation somehow. bump into him if you must lol and just take it from there. u could after that ask if you know him from somewhere. and then from there you can greet him every time you see him and blah blah blah u get the idea

Answer 10

you dont love him - u love the idea of him - get 2 know him a little more before u decide - your one foot in a grave u cant even dig cuz u got no shovel