(A) Someone who can talk about his (and her) feelings?
(B) The strong silent type?
(That is, if there are only two choices.)
2006-11-01 07:29:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A, also someone who is honest, trustworthy
2006-11-01 07:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when females are younger that the go for the The strong and silent type. But as we age majority of females would take man capable of talking about their feelings. That's my take on your question.
2006-11-01 15:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer B. I'm good at reading moods and body language. I'm an emotional mess sometimes. I would not like to have to deal with myself. The strong silent type does occassionally say what they are feeling. To the one they trust. They just dont gush all the time.
2006-11-01 15:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say (A) if I had to choose... although I do have to admit to being attracted to the strong and silent type (as long as he's able to have a conversation every once in a while!) Good question!
2006-11-01 15:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most common thing I hear from guys is that they typically don't like drama and head games.
My experience with guys is that they don't like too many emotions. It makes them uncomfortable if they don't freely express emotions themselves. But I attract guys who like to be expressive emotionally, and I notice that when I'm around guys like that, my emotions are accepted more.
I have been around the strong siltent type: The kind of guy who is very logical and much less emotional. Those types are limiting in conversation, unless it has to do with things that involve logic and debate. But when you get into things that involve "feelings", they often lose interest in the conversation.
So it depends on the guy. I've seen both types. I've interacted with both. But most men do NOT like mind games and drama.
2006-11-01 15:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my personal experience, I always WENT for the masculaine mans man. However, I learned the hard way that women do not need men that have to much testosterone. My husband of 3 years is in touch with his femanine side (and NO he is not in the closet) He just knows how to talk to a woman. He cries once in awhile and we share everything. We are each others best friend and that is important in a relationship. Plus he is excellent in bed.
2006-11-01 15:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with 'Carrie.'
The rub is in the "strong" in your question. It's too easy to picture a snivelling, whingy little boy apropos of (A), but there isn't much bad to be said about (B).
See:
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/snagmyth.shtml
"And though he'll never pass a watermelon through his rump,
nor does he bloat during that time of the month,
he has noticed that on a regular schedule
he gets into a grump!"
I suspect a lot of these answers aren't entirely honest. How many schoolgirls have ever put a poster of Alan Alda in their locker?
2006-11-01 16:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are a couple things that girls really look for in a guy
1. someone who wont flirt with other girls,and who will flirt with ehr to make ehr feel like your into her and no1 else
2. someone who will make her feel safe and happy, by sneaking up from behind and wraping your arms around ehr waste adn kiss her on the cheek, this is saying i just wanna hold you forever
3. someone who will do somethign special for no occasion like get her some flowers just cause or get her somethign you know she likes or is an inside joke between the 2 of you, she'll think that your totally sweet
4. idk how you act around ehr when you are with your friends but she will want you to(no matter who is around) make sure she is your #1(example:if you are hanging wit your friends adn ignoring her that is bad, pay attention to her too)
5. dont be an idiot dont tell her you love her if you dont mean it most girls would rather you wait adn say it when you really mean it then to just say it casue you think it is what we wanna hear
good luck
2006-11-01 15:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman has a different “type” of man they are looking for. Some more common then others but it all depends on their individual interest.
2006-11-01 15:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Numero uno. Number 1, letter A. A lot of girls I know and myself prefer the guy who can open up and relate and talk to us. We love a guy who talks. Not one of those I-never-talk-because-I-am-tough-and-manly-like-that guys. We like the conversation.
2006-11-01 15:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is 1 more...
C - One who listens and empathizesbut can talk about himself and his feelings and has a touch of the seductive/mysterious.
2006-11-01 15:50:27 · answer #11 · answered by Allison S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋