My girlfriend has recently been lacking self confidence. It isn't really physically speaking, she believes that she is good looking, and attractive, it's more of a mental thing. Her parents are getting divoreced, and her entire family is never happy, takes it out on her and makes her feel bad. The worst thing is that she is starting to think that she isn't good enough for me, and that is what makes me mad. I love her so much and hate seeing her like this. I have gone through exactly the same thing and try talking to her, but she doesn't seem to be getting better. Please Help!!!
2006-11-01 07:23:40 · 4 answers · asked by pigskin_player2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her compliments, let her know it's not her fault and that she's not her mom, dad, etc. Do things to make her smile - a homemade card, a flower - just little things (they don't have to be expense) to make her feel better about herself.
2006-11-01 07:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does telling her..I LOVE YOU... Work? I also agree with the out of town for few days thing..it is a wonderful thing to do..keep telling her u Love Her...some familys are always disputing...tell her the less she communicates with stress the better she will be...
2006-11-01 15:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out of town for a day or two, get her some fresh air and cut any communication between her and anyone but you.
2006-11-01 15:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is just people nature to follow down of not perfect life, and too many disappointments. Just give her time be from your heart for her. Stop disgust this with her, see just her.
2006-11-01 15:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋