what can i do.also my boyfriend has it a lot caz' he's always getting a *****.and he comes on to me wanting to do it but im still a virgina nd im not letting go of it.
2006-11-01 07:13:51 · 8 answers · asked by mackinmami1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The bottom line is that he needs to respect you. You need to tell him what he wants and if he really cares about you then it won't be a problem. You also need to consider the fact that you might be putting him or allowing him to be in compromising situations and in a sense "asking" for it. If its not what you want then you shouldn't lead him on
2006-11-01 07:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ava_Sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men think about sex atleast 50 or more times a day. I have that article that talks about a couple and sex. The only way to calm your bf down is to atleast do some foreplay. Forplay is good at satisfying sexual needs. Tell him that, that is all you will do because you dont want to have sex right now.
Sex is special because it has to be with the right person and at the right time when both of you feel comfortable doing it. Explain to him that you will do it, when you feel comfortable and the time is right. If he keeps pushing and pushing the issue then i would try something else.
The key is foreplay though, foreplay is good and should satisfy his sexual needs for now. The only difference between sex and foreplay is, sex you are penetration in and out and with foreplay your doing everything else, the kissing, etc............
2006-11-01 07:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not get a bf who respects you for you??
He sounds like the type of guy that got the "blossom", wouldn't stick around much after her got it.
Find a nice guy that respects your decissions, or how about just dateing instead of being in a relationship for now?
2006-11-01 07:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some knee pads............or some Vaseline. Help him out. What's wrong with you? Too good to touch the weeener?
2006-11-01 07:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, they he has no business pressuring you. Tell him to back off. Break up with him if he won't respect your wishes.
2006-11-01 07:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Wundt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to move out of the state of Virginia?!?!
2006-11-01 07:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a *******,or oral always works for me
2006-11-01 07:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by Eric D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything he will calm down by himself.
2006-11-01 07:16:01 · answer #8 · answered by jay s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋